For what it's worth, I have a fair sized group of American friends who are more centrist or to the right in their voting, all well-educated women. This issue has been on their radar for a long time, and they have pretty much the same views as women here. They don't in fact hate women, they are women, and they have daughters. They, like many American women, are moderate to conservative about abortion, though largely pragmatic also, and have a significant variety of opinions about whether it should be something legislated at the state or federal level. They'd all point out that stacking the SC has been something the Dems saw as a great tactic when it worked for them. They have been seriously turned off by a lot of the progressive protesting about abortion which they find extremist and horrible. Like the majority they are not happy to have abortion completely unregulated up to birth.
I don't think any like Trump personally, and some won't vote for him. At least one was originally very against him, but was shocked to hear the media outright lie about a speech he gave to make him look horrible, which was a huge political shift for her. They are all seriously concerned about wider issues in identity politics, and none see how they could ever vote for the Democrats who seem to be doing, in their mind, batshit crazy stuff. They tend to see the Dems as the historic party of racism, right up to Biden himself. Much of which is never reported in the left media.
Which seems to be a similar problem with parties of the left everywhere now. It's such a small tent, if you deviate even a little from their perspectives, they don't seem to want you in there.