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^“She was five foot four, blonde, and always wore heels and a dress. It’s exactly what I wanted, and what I wanted to be. I think that’s some of the reason why I fell in love with her – I wanted to be her." ...Theresa died in January 2019.
Cherylin said: “She was only 54 when she died, and I thought life was far too short. I just had to take the wheel, which was my eureka moment. I spent that year knowing that I was no longer going to be Tony, I was going to become Cherylin, and throughout that whole year, obviously, I’m still grieving but also filled with excitement.^
How lovely for the three children of the marriage to know this is how their father felt immediately after their mother died.