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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I think I have a GC colleague : )

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Vebrithien · 17/01/2023 19:35

Work in a big secondary school. My department (science) know I'm GC, but I don't really discuss this with other staff.

We have very limited numbers of staff toilets. The womens toilets I use are in a different block, as the closest ones are next to where the students sit and they can hear us.

The toilets in the old, 1910's block, have an ancient plaque on them with "Ladies", plus a small round metal sign saying 'Staff".

This morning, there is an A4, laminated white sign stuck firmly on the door saying "Female Staff Only".

I grinned.

There is someone else here!

I did wonder if it was in response to the news yesterday 🤔

Cheered my morning right up 😊

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Vebrithien · 17/01/2023 23:07

Boiledbeetle · 17/01/2023 22:58

You'll need a card with all staff on so you can rule them out. It will be like cluedo. It was Mrs Smith in the Maths block with the laminator.

Now that sounds like the logical sort of game I'd enjoy 😄

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Vebrithien · 17/01/2023 23:11

I'm going to laminate another sign, and put it on the women's staff toilets where the students can hear us pee. I won't use those toilets myself, but I like the idea of putting the sign up and spreading the message.

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Whatsfordinnerglutenfree · 17/01/2023 23:20

I really think a lot of us are assuming that everyone around us is going to get the vapours if we come out as GC, but I bet most of them are GC and thinking the same thing.

thecatsmum12346 · 17/01/2023 23:24

SleekMamma · 17/01/2023 21:03

I cross out gender on NHS forms and write SEX.

I discovered today a GC colleague yay!

Good for you. I love this.

Thelnebriati · 17/01/2023 23:34

Mark the sign. Give it 10/10 and a smiley face.

Vebrithien · 19/01/2023 16:33

😂

Marked!

I think I have a GC colleague : )
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MingeofDeath · 19/01/2023 16:48

It's TERF central where I work, it's bloody great.

Boiledbeetle · 19/01/2023 17:40

Vebrithien · 19/01/2023 16:33

😂

Marked!

Ah but did you use permanent marker?🤔

Vebrithien · 19/01/2023 18:18

No, but it didn't wipe off

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EmmaGrundyForPM · 19/01/2023 18:29

I work for a Local Authority where loads of pressure is put on people to announce/state their pronouns..... Its dangerous to put your head above the parapet.

I was at a meeting last year where a colleague I worked with very occasionally sat next to me and I noticed she had purple, green and white ribbons tied to the handle of her bag. I nodded to it and quietly said "GC?" and she nodded. I said "me too". She later emailed me to tell me about a local monthly WRN group which I joined. There turned out to be a few LA women employees there. Its so good to have GC Allies

PermanentTemporary · 19/01/2023 19:06

Hmm maybe I'll buy a purple stethoscope and mark it somehow with white and green.

Vebrithien · 19/01/2023 19:49

I have two "votes for women" suffragette badges on my handbag strap. Only my DH has asked what they are, and he rolled his eyes at my answer.

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Thelnebriati · 19/01/2023 22:40

Love it! 😂

littlbrowndog · 19/01/2023 22:51

I work with Scottish government as contractor. Not one person in government does the pronoun stuff

catandcoffee · 19/01/2023 23:14

I like the sound of the ribbons on your bag 😉

EmmaGrundyForPM · 20/01/2023 03:41

We've discussed it since, and drawn a parallel with early Christians using the fish symbol to identify each other when Christianity was banned.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 20/01/2023 03:45

littlbrowndog · 19/01/2023 22:51

I work with Scottish government as contractor. Not one person in government does the pronoun stuff

You're lucky. The LA I work for has loads of people putting their pronouns in their signature. We also have monthly EDI sessions where there's a lot of focus on being a trans Ally.

Justellingthetruth · 20/01/2023 04:53

@Vebrithien

good grief

WarriorN · 20/01/2023 06:52

Ohh i May theme my next display in green purple and white....

I did wonder if we have a secret terf as a display on diversity in the summer included a pic of Ellen page from 5 years ago. And zero trans.

Namechangeforthis88 · 20/01/2023 07:01

I work in Scottish Government so I am very careful what I say and to whom on this, but the section 35 saga brought two colleagues out as GC in one day yesterday, in separate conversations. That's a first.

boobot1 · 20/01/2023 07:18

SleekMamma · 17/01/2023 21:36

GC means gender critical. Meaning one thinks having a gender identity is a load of nonsense. We have all have a body that is male for female. And that affects many parts of our lives.
Wear what you want. Do whatever job that you want. But your body is your body.

Yup, sums it up.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 20/01/2023 07:57

I made a GC friend at work, recently.

She had made a very reasonable comment on a article about the menopause (I think).

She got the usual pile on (which I told the moderators about, cos - as we all know - if its'that' subject, people can be as passionate' as they like🤨), and I wanted to give her some support and back her up.

Ameanstreakamilewide · 20/01/2023 07:59

catandcoffee · 19/01/2023 23:14

I like the sound of the ribbons on your bag 😉

I have one of the tiny enamel W-AHF badges on my lanyard.

I think my place of work is actually getting worse for the pronoun bullshit.

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