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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Help me work out how to alert my friends to what's happening. Also is my panic irrational?

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FriendofJoanne · 11/01/2023 13:29

I've posted the Sex Matters petition and all my family and some of my closest friends have signed, but others have said nothing. When we get together we are usually in a group catching up on our lives in general, and I try to talk but haven't managed to so far.

I've shared the petition on our Whatsapp group but only had one contact me separately. I've written a letter but not shared it as there's so much to say. I want to share my worries succinctly - about women's rights being eroded, children being taught that gender is more important than sex, children and vulnerable adults being medicated and given surgery instead of therapy to help them with trauma.

This is affecting my mental health now, I feel sick, depressed and anxious about the world we live in because of this. I care about global warming and the financial inequality of the world too, but this issue has taken over my life. For you others in this who post regularly how do you manage your anxiety? Do you feel anxious? How do you keep going?

I try to put time boundaries around how long I spend reading, but I do tend to listen to podcasts while doing other things.

My husband suggested I step away for a bit, I do need to, but I feel strongly that once I've shared my concerns it will relieve my anxiety and I'll be able to stop obsessing about it.

So please help me very succinctly explain why this issue is so important. Thank you :) Or just some headlines to catch peoples attention to read more. I think a lot of people still don't think its relevant to their lives.

OP posts:
ScrollingLeaves · 13/01/2023 14:17

Pass-pass · Today 12:56
I say ‘the problem isn’t trans people, the problem is abusive men exploiting the loop holes that allow them to declare they are women whilst keeping their penis and then being locked up with female prisoners or showering with naked women on a sports team.’

Thats my opener.

I see what you mean, and especially that you would try not to be alienating by seeming to suggest that being trans per se may predispose someone to being a pervert.

But on the other hand, it is simply not true to say no trans people are ever sex criminals - that it is only ever men who pretend to be trans to get access to women who are this sort of criminal.

Men commit 98% of violent and sexual crimes. Most men are not criminals, but some men are. Some men may even pretend to be trans to gain access to prey.

Transwomen are men. Though most transwomen are not criminals, as they belong to the class called ‘men’, some transwomen are.

ScrollingLeaves · 13/01/2023 14:18

Sorry, Passpass, that was a typo.

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