It’s a lose lose situation.
They will be threatening suicide next. It’s part of the play book.
We had 3 years of it.
Half the class were bisexual or boys, in an all girls school.
She changed her name. Multiple times.
She was a rollercoaster of up and down, up were fantastic we thought she pulled through it, next day she goes out for a walk, comes back an hour later, followed by 3 paramedics and police, because she rang them to tell them she was suicidal.
Mum refused to accept it - and so refused to comply. I played good cop, understanding, empathic, listened, talked about it, just asking her to wait before going down the medicinal route…. Both of us were in the wrong.
As far as i’m concerned, it’s child abuse.
She finally came through it - came to me one day and said she was going to change her name again, ok i said, to what? Ivy…. I said that’s a girls name, yeah she said…. Ok…. Suits you i said, and that was it - all over with.
She did tell us later the ‘well-being’ teacher at school was responsible and that she felt activated by her and was pushed forward as an activist and actively trying to convert other girls and she felt bad about it.
This was a very expensive private school, £20k+ a year.
All i can say, is thank god it’s over. Thank god for Maya Forrester.. And thank god these sexual deviants are being found out slowly, but it’s all coming to light now.
It’s child abuse.
I do feel for you, i wouldn’t wish going through that with your child, on anyone.
From what we read, researched, there’s a playbook of escalation in the event that someone in their life doesn’t ‘confirm’ their new identity. It’s sickening.
Unless you say ‘yes’ and ‘agree’ no matter what you do, it will be wrong. I’m so sorry.
I didn’t give two hoots about Trans before any of this, but seeing what this ideology put my child through, it nearly killed her, using her emotions and autism against her, her dislike of a girls experience of puberty.
This isnt what you want to hear…. There is quite literally nothing you can do.