Why not be the L or the B?
www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/001074fa-347e-4e31-98eb-6c73f6776314
Being the q strikes me as needing to avoid the L or the B.
If q ain't pigeon holing fine, but it appears to be v sexist "dressing up as a he" "being a he."
You've lost the opportunity to be a strong gay icon for many younger girls and women Cara.
At least you're not NB and getting top surgery.