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Balenciaga apologises for bondage bear advert involving child

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PandorasMailbox · 23/11/2022 06:34

They're also taking legal action against its creator

What I want to know is who the hell signed it off and why were the parents happy to let it go ahead?

I've included the images for anyone who hasn't seen them.

Balenciaga apologises for bondage bear advert involving child
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Discoh · 23/11/2022 08:55

ApocalipstickNow · 23/11/2022 08:34

I don’t think people will shun the brand.

Balenciaga is a well established, successful, high end label - the name will ride this out because, quite frankly, not enough people care enough.

The BBC employed one of the worst abusers in recent history- fully embedded in the organisation not just a faceless nobody- not only are they still going they’re held as a trusted institution.

Exactly. They're not some random brand, they're a famous fashion house like Chanel or Dior. They're also well known for mad stuff like muddy catwalks or the models in masks. I don't think people who buy Balenciaga will care

MoirasSaggyBundles · 23/11/2022 08:58

Everyone in art/drama/fashion live in a bubble. They push the boundaries, and think the small people (the general public) will comply, because they are super stars with vision and we are not but we are wannabes. We look at the glossy mags and try to buy a bit of the fantasy world they inhabit, which is why women pay an arm and a leg for an ugly bag with little function while they struggle to pay the electric bill. They will think this stuff is edgy/ironic but ok because it probably is in the inner circles of that world. If it was produced by a man in his mother's basement, they would see the light.

NecessaryScene · 23/11/2022 08:58

I would bet my last tenner that someone (or several someones) involved in this has a sexual interest in children.

Absolutely - at least one person, and quite likely only one.

But what this demonstrates is him* feeling able to flaunt it and a huge chain of people involved in getting this thing to publication turning a blind eye to his behaviour.

(I originally wrote "them", then realised that it makes more sense to assume male here).

MilkshakesBringAllTheCoosToTheYard · 23/11/2022 08:59

Bullshit they are bringing charges against 'the creative' - for what? Fulfilling their brief to a high enough standard that the brand decided to sign off the pictures and put them into the world? Creatives don't just go 'oh I know, let's do this' on the day, every pixel has been briefed, mocked up and agreed before its shot. Client would have been on set too.

(That's not to say I absolve the creative for doing the shoot - as they are the ones taking the image they are directly doing harm. But it's nonsense for the instigator to 'take action' against them as they are equally culpable.)

Datun · 23/11/2022 09:03

Is child sexual abuse really something that could inhabit the 'edgy' genre in fashion?

The fact most comments here assume it's originated by an actual pedophile would seem to suggest not.

Bloody hell. I hope it ruins them.

ResisterRex · 23/11/2022 09:12

Is child sexual abuse really something that could inhabit the 'edgy' genre in fashion?

A trip through the completely unrestrained RSE materials used here and in the States would suggest nothing is impossible.

MarshaBradyo · 23/11/2022 09:13

BenCooperSuperTrouper · 23/11/2022 08:40

So many people think this is ok- look at this Australian style magazine’s “wink wink, we are so edgy” comment below these photos. In plain site. Not only did Russh Magazine understand the theme, they commented on it like a joke.

As if the client wasn’t on set and signing this off. I’d love someone to get sued but it’s the client

ApocalipstickNow · 23/11/2022 09:13

Is child sexual abuse really something that could inhabit the 'edgy' genre in fashion?

I would say, sadly, yes.

There’s enough horror stories about underage models and abuse/exploitation so I think a lot of “fashion people” will just shrug and carry on as usual.

Companies like Balenciaga will have dedicated super rich clients- possibly any who are angered or horrified by this campaign will use their financial clout to have people removed (this is probably why the apology has come about i lm guessing) but as the very rich who favour their designs want to stick with their preferred brand so they will continue. And that’s assuming their customer base give a shit.

I think it’s easy to underestimate how little people actually care about the safety of children. History does not show it to be a priority. Which is the horror of it all.

MarshaBradyo · 23/11/2022 09:13

Actually what is the position re child sexual imagery? Criminal offence might be better

Karwomannghia · 23/11/2022 09:16

I can’t believe that’s real!! I know it is but the whole thing- and now they’re making out it was a mistake as if the whole company didn’t have a theme they were aware of- following a show last year where they send models down the catwalk with bloody noses? Wtf? Do we think Kim k will be wearing the brand anymore? Or any other celebrities? I doubt it. Just can’t believe they’ve done that and fucked themselves over so badly!

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 23/11/2022 09:17

bellinisurge · 23/11/2022 07:34

Tucker Carlson used the expression "kiddie porn". There's no such thing. There is only child abuse and rape. I hate that the right are taking control of this narrative and using language that seeks to lessen or diminish the reality of it. Where's Jon Stewart and Trevor Noah

Where are the left? Hiding under the table, or gleefully supporting. ‘Silence is violence’ you know.

MoirasSaggyBundles · 23/11/2022 09:18

Datun · 23/11/2022 09:03

Is child sexual abuse really something that could inhabit the 'edgy' genre in fashion?

The fact most comments here assume it's originated by an actual pedophile would seem to suggest not.

Bloody hell. I hope it ruins them.

Do you remember the Kate Moss nudes for Calvin Klein? She looked like a child, and was still a child.

Karwomannghia · 23/11/2022 09:20

Yes and Kate Moss has spoken about how uncomfortable she felt.

schoolgovernor123 · 23/11/2022 09:21

Shelefttheweb · 23/11/2022 07:31

If the adverts weren’t included on the thread there would be posters saying it didn’t happen and if it did it wasn’t that bad.

This. Whilst I can see the argument for obscuring the child's face - and hopefully MNHQ could help with that - this ad was distributed widely by a high profile brand and I hardly think a site known predominantly to be used by women who care about safeguarding children is going to make a huge amount of difference. That ad will have already been downloaded by anyone who wanted to.

Heads need to roll.

Helleofabore · 23/11/2022 09:23

NecessaryScene · 23/11/2022 08:58

I would bet my last tenner that someone (or several someones) involved in this has a sexual interest in children.

Absolutely - at least one person, and quite likely only one.

But what this demonstrates is him* feeling able to flaunt it and a huge chain of people involved in getting this thing to publication turning a blind eye to his behaviour.

(I originally wrote "them", then realised that it makes more sense to assume male here).

The inclusion of the document proves that point to me.

HopeMumsnet · 23/11/2022 09:27

Hi everyone,
We have removed the concerning images , but we have no objection to them going back up with the faces blurred. Thank you to everyone who drew our attention to this matter.

Helleofabore · 23/11/2022 09:28

One of the most unsettling things about those photos is that the child models look scared and unhappy.

Yes. The models don’t look happy at all. Very strained and smiling because they were told too.

It reminds me of the boy in the John Lewis ad. He looked very confused at the end of the ad when you looked at screen grabs. That was child trying to act in the way the creator wanted but who didn’t really understand.

MoirasSaggyBundles · 23/11/2022 09:31

I don't think it's incompatible to say that the person who created this imagery has a sexual interest in children, and that this industry has always attracted men with such interests. The TQ+ brigade has just made it easier for them to be more open about it, because the public has been softened up by the normalisation of stuff like Desmond is Amazing and Pride marches with bondage furries.

ApocalipstickNow · 23/11/2022 09:36

MoirasSaggyBundles · 23/11/2022 09:18

Do you remember the Kate Moss nudes for Calvin Klein? She looked like a child, and was still a child.

Brooke Shields was 15 when she modelled for Calvin Klein with the tag line “you know what comes between me and my Calvins? Nothing”.

Calvin Klein still successful.

ArabellaScott · 23/11/2022 09:36

Soontobe60 · 23/11/2022 06:43

No, that’s not good enough. Advertising campaigns are not just something that happen in the spur of the moment. The theme / content isn’t just down to 1 person. There would have been a team involved before the shoot, the models booked well in advance, the models would have had chaperones, the props would need to have been acquired.
So what has actually happened is that they have been called out for their extremely dodgy campaign and are now backtracking rapidly for damage limitation. There should be an independent investigation into how this child was placed in such a shocking situation.
Also, please don’t anyone forward the photos - this child needs to be protected, not have her image plastered all over the internet.

100%

Bullshit that they weren't aware. They can fuck all the way off to fuck with their bondage teddies, forever.

ArabellaScott · 23/11/2022 09:40

it's the expressions on the children's faces that will stay with me. I hope someone is checking that they are safe and being well cared for.

nauticant · 23/11/2022 09:40

It’s gross but also why are they taking legal action against the creator - they would have signed it off?

This is a very cheap thing for them to say simply to signal that they're pretending to be the wronged party in some way and they're going to act firmly. I expect there'll be no legal action but they'll keep up the pretence it's going to happen until the story has moved out of the mainstream.

Feckedupbundle · 23/11/2022 09:47

I saw this on Twitter the other day and couldn't quite believe my eyes. Revolting!
I'd agree with the poster who said that this was no accident. A long line of people would have been involved and you'd hope that somewhere along the line,at least one person might have raised concerns?

Both my Dd's were models,from 3 months old. Mainly fitting models for a well known fashion company and I remember 6 month old Dd1 being presented with a bikini to see how it fitted.I told the staff that I thought that bikinis for 6 month old babies ( with a triangle/ bra style top) were inappropriate and that no way would I buy one.

Anyway, whenever we were offered photographic bookings,the agent described what the job was for and what they'd be doing. I was offered an ad campaign for the NSPCC and the agent told me to consider the fact that there were some people who would see Dd1 in the advert and not be able to comprehend that she wasn't being neglected/ abused in real life and that she was just a model. I turned that job down.So, going from my experience, EVERYONE apart from that child,would have had a choice to stand up and say "no". And no one did. Poor poor child.

MassiveWordSalad · 23/11/2022 09:47

Jesus Christ, this is just bizarre. The fashion industry is not content with objectifying adults (mostly women), being one of the worst global polluters and abusing human rights on an enormous scale in its production chains, now they're doing this??!

And this site, apparently a leading fashion brand and blog, believes the questioning of Balenciaga's campaign is an 'absurd conspiracy theory':

www.highsnobiety.com/p/balenciaga-child-ad-conspiracy-theory/

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/11/2022 09:51

Some people are desperate to link concerns about paedophilia with right wing groups. Can't think why they'd be so keen to cover up child abuse Confused