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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Just despair - HOW do some women just not get it!

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Mynewchairhasarmrests · 21/11/2022 09:24

Just finished a brilliant novel written by a female author about friendships, girlhoo, womanhood, and growing up as a girl. She was so absolutely on the money about what it’s like to be a young woman and the pressures of looking and acting a certain way, the awful way women are so often treated by men, the way women are portrayed in the media, how we are programmed not to recognise sexual assault and told its just boys having fun, and how we aren’t believed even if we do report it. Her anger and passion really came through and it was good, though depressing, to read someone telling it exactly like it is.

You know what’s coming. I then look on her social media. She’s a TRA. Signed a letter condemning JKR for being ‘anti trans’. Condemns Germaine Greer for being so wrong on trans issues.

I just don’t understand how these women can see the misogyny everywhere they look BUT the place where it’s in its worst, purest form - gender ideology.

Its like a glitch in the coding somewhere. Why can’t they see it? I have another friend who is on the board of a rape charity. We had long conversations about how shit it can be to be a woman. The misogyny everywhere. I was sure she must be GC. But no. A TRA. Doesn’t speak to me now she knows I’m a TERF.

I just don’t get it. Is it fear of societal disapproval? A reluctance to admit the liberal progressive cause they publicly embraced is anything but and that they’ve been had?

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:17

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:10

Absolutely, I’m stunned at the state of our education system and really glad my DC took statistics courses.

You are the one wilfully misleading yourself and others regarding the sex in the census question

beastlyslumber · 21/11/2022 16:17

AlisonDonut · 21/11/2022 16:16

Come on ladies, it isn't men who claim they are women who are more of a risk of sex offences it is men who say they are women. This shows that it is the men who say they are women who are dangerous, not those other men who say they are women.

Clear as mud.

Finally an explanation!

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:19

Helleofabore · 21/11/2022 16:12

I am going to post this link up.

www.sexsegregatedprisons.info

This is Clare's site and she does have the statistics broken down from a column on the spreadsheets from the MoJ. She did show me where, but I have forgotten.

The information about trans prisoners is collated and she and others then check them.

I am pretty comfortable with her figures. She is after all an aeronautical engineer if I remember correctly and as a victim of assault.

Huh, she should know better than to have wildly different date ranges then as that’s a big nope for valid statistical comparisons.

And there is the garbage in, garbage out problem with the fact that MoJ isn’t entirely sure how many transgender prisoners they have. The BBC article said quite plainly:
”It says the figures "are not yet a reliable reflection of the numbers and location of trans prisoners in the prison estate". The MoJ can't count inmates who have not told prison staff they are transgender. Nor does it count prisoners who have already been given a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC).”

So if you don’t know how many prisoners are transgender, how can you say 80% of transgender inmates are male or that 99% of transgender sex offenders are male? You literally cannot calculate it with any reliability.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:20

Do you think this person knows they are saying things that aren’t true and doesn’t care?

beastlyslumber · 21/11/2022 16:20

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:20

Do you think this person knows they are saying things that aren’t true and doesn’t care?

Yes.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:21

It’s a funny old way to conduct yourself, that’s for sure

MangyInseam · 21/11/2022 16:21

I haven't read through all the replies, but I will say that in general I do not think these women are telling lies.

In my experience, most know much less about the "other side" of the argument than women who post here might imagine. And they generally, almost always, think that being trans is a biological thing, like intersex. They tend to believe that what science there is supports that viewpoint. So to them, saying TWAW is not some kind of contradiction, it's giving people their correct designation.

I will also say that sometimes if you dig a bit at the other viewpoints of people who buy into this stuff, they may also be more shallow than you realized, and often they have bought into id pol pretty heavily.

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:21

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:17

You are the one wilfully misleading yourself and others regarding the sex in the census question

Sorry, but it’s you guys who are being fooled by “damned statistics and lies”

LaughingPriest · 21/11/2022 16:22

Unless you believe prisoners are being recorded as trans when they are not, the calculated proportion is only ever going to be a minimum, ie an "at least" value.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:23

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:21

Sorry, but it’s you guys who are being fooled by “damned statistics and lies”

I’m not referring to that. I am referring to your now deleted post accusing feminists of actively trying to prevent the collection of data about gender

that post was not true

beastlyslumber · 21/11/2022 16:24

The quote is "there are lies, damned lies, and then there are statistics." But if that's your argument, then why bother even getting into the stats at all? You've also been presented with data and you don't like that either.

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:25

@beastlyslumber
It tells us that there are more sex offenders claiming to be trans in prison.

No, it really doesn’t.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/11/2022 16:26

Nice of certain posters to give a live demonstration of "not getting it".

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:26

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:23

I’m not referring to that. I am referring to your now deleted post accusing feminists of actively trying to prevent the collection of data about gender

that post was not true

It was true, but it’s obviously offended someone so it’s been deleted. Inconvenient truths are often deleted.

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:28

beastlyslumber · 21/11/2022 16:24

The quote is "there are lies, damned lies, and then there are statistics." But if that's your argument, then why bother even getting into the stats at all? You've also been presented with data and you don't like that either.

The quote is referring to how propagandists manipulate people by misusing statistics or using the wrong data to peddle a narrative. Which you have fallen for because you thought those 40% vs 19% figures actually meant several things they cannot be used to show.

ArabellaScott · 21/11/2022 16:29

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:20

Do you think this person knows they are saying things that aren’t true and doesn’t care?

Yes.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 21/11/2022 16:30

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:26

It was true, but it’s obviously offended someone so it’s been deleted. Inconvenient truths are often deleted.

Ok

i was talking about this

amp.theguardian.com/society/2022/feb/17/transgender-people-can-self-identify-in-scottish-census-confirms-judge

what were you talking about?

AlisonDonut · 21/11/2022 16:30

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:25

@beastlyslumber
It tells us that there are more sex offenders claiming to be trans in prison.

No, it really doesn’t.

I would be interested in how you think we could measure anything what with your knowledge of prison stats.

What should we be recording against what?

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:31

Anyway, OP I too despair some women just do not get it! They really should teach basic statistics and how to spot bad science in secondary school.

Please at least buy this book for your DC
www.amazon.co.uk/Bad-Science-Ben-Goldacre/dp/000728487X

Im off, as it is obviously futile.

ArabellaScott · 21/11/2022 16:32

LaughingPriest · 21/11/2022 16:22

Unless you believe prisoners are being recorded as trans when they are not, the calculated proportion is only ever going to be a minimum, ie an "at least" value.

Yes, the only way the figures are unclear is that males with a GRC are not being recorded. So the figures in the BBC article are quite likely to be skewed lower than actual figures.

ArabellaScott · 21/11/2022 16:33

Oh, of course, those cakes won't ice themselves!

ArabellaScott · 21/11/2022 16:34

Also why would an amazon link have a reference to MN in it?

beastlyslumber · 21/11/2022 16:34

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:28

The quote is referring to how propagandists manipulate people by misusing statistics or using the wrong data to peddle a narrative. Which you have fallen for because you thought those 40% vs 19% figures actually meant several things they cannot be used to show.

I can tell from the data that trans-identified prisoners are more likely to be convicted sex offenders than non-trans-identified prisoners. Because the data shows me exactly that. If you can't tell me WHY it doesn't show that and explain what it does show, then why should I believe you over the evidence of data I can see in front of me? You are hardly an unbiased or trustworthy source on this topic.

There can be many reasons why this figure is what it is. But I don't see any reason to not believe the figure itself.

Helleofabore · 21/11/2022 16:43

Onnabugeisha · 21/11/2022 16:09

@Helleofabore
Do you agree that transitioned male show that they commit sex crimes at a rate that is closer to males than females? yes or no

I didn’t ignore your question. I answered it with an unknown because the data needed to calculate these figures does not exist.

That is a cop out and I think any readers reading along will see it as such.

Up until 31/12/2019 there were 122 females in prison having committed sex offences according to the statistics readily available on line. ( I have not analyses whether that includes prostitution offences by the way) [from Table 1.2b: Prison population under an immediate custodial sentence by offence group, age group and sex]

There was known to be 76 transitioned males in prison in the UK for sex offences. This is data collated by searches from women's groups etc.

By the way, that 122 female number, I have not gone and verified how many of those are even female and how many are males recorded as females. It is not actually necessary for a raw data comparison using common sense.

I don't believe that it takes any further observation unless it is extremely bad faith to ignore this data. It is very very clear to see using raw numbers of females in UK prisons for sexual offences rather than any % analysis about ratio of population etc.

All the twisting in the world cannot ignore that transitioned males do not commit sex offences at a rate any where near the general female population.

That is the important observation.

Transitioned males do not commit sex offences at a rate any where near the general female population.

Please explain why you would ignore the raw number comparison.

Babasghost · 21/11/2022 16:45

Can't tell which sex have a cervix and can't do basic numeracy. I give you tras.

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