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Miriam Cates on international men's day - harmful effects of porn on men and boys

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ResisterRex · 18/11/2022 10:07

Miriam Cates spoke about a number of topics, including the harm of pornography on men and boys yesterday.

Clip here:

twitter.com/CforWomenUK/status/1593536256079716352

Full debate here with an extract:

hansard.parliament.uk/commons/2022-11-17/debates/7CD1983D-4676-4570-A1E3-5F406D369826/InternationalMen%E2%80%99SDay

"there is an issue affecting the health and wellbeing of men, particularly boys, in a truly alarming way. We have a growing public health crisis as a result of the proliferation of online pornography. In 2020, pornography websites received more traffic than Twitter, Instagram, Netflix, Zoom, Pinterest and LinkedIn combined. For too long, society has viewed porn as a private matter, assuming that what people do in the privacy of their own home is their own business, but it is clear that the impacts on society have been significant and negative.

We must wake up to the destructive impacts of internet pornography. There is nothing “mainstream” about the porn now available online. Mainstream pornography Toggle showing location of platforms host vast quantities—unknown quantities—of filmed crimes: videos of trafficking, rape, non-consensual sexual violence, child sexual abuse material, sexual coercion, abuse and exploitation of vulnerable women and children, intrafamilial rape, humiliation, punishment, torture and pain, all available at the click of a mouse or the touch of an iPhone.

Analysis of 130,000 titles of videos that were recommended to first-time users of Pornhub and other major sites found that one in every eight described sexual activities that constitute sexual violence. “Teen” was the word that occurred most frequently across the dataset; the second most common category was physical aggression and sexual assault. Viewing such videos affects what men, particularly boys, think about sex—what they think is normal and what they think is acceptable.

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During puberty, boys’ brains develop an erotic imprint in which what they see as normal and appropriate sexual behaviour is laid down. That imprint will stay with them for the rest of their life. How many of these boys will be drawn into serious sex offences? How many will endure broken relationships or broken families, or never form relationships at all?

Pornography also affects boys’ health. There has been an increase in erectile dysfunction among teenage boys. At the extreme, the constant use of pornography can quickly lead men not to become aroused by anything other than hardcore online porn."

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FriendofJoanne · 18/11/2022 10:21

I listened to an excellent podcast on pornography yesterday - www.feministcurrent.com/2022/10/24/beyond-fantasy-benji-nolot-exposes-the-dark-truth-about-porn/

As mother to a soon to be 13 year old son porn is something that worries me, we've had a brief chat about it and it isn't something that he's been exposed to yet. Also I'm generally worried about the impact of porn on society. Miriam Cates has given some excellent speeches, I've always been on the left politically, but am thankful for MPs like Miriam and Kemi. Also for those on the left like Rosie Duffield. I send Rosie an email to thank her for speaking out, I didn't hear back though.

Boiledbeetle · 18/11/2022 19:33

Good I'm feeling old, but as a kid way back in the days of the internet not having been invented, if you came across porn it was usually because either someone had found their parents secret stash or you'd occasionally find some rain soaked pages of playboy or razel stuck under a bush (although i am aware the second one may just have been some weirdo where i lived going round leaving porn in bushes!)

young boys/men were much more likely to have had actual real sex with another person and not just their hand before they actually ever came across ( ! ) any actual porn.

I feel so sorry for the youth of today.

Hoicks bosom, wanders off muttering.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 18/11/2022 20:49

Agree with her.

If a policeman is turned on by teenage girls in distress then should he be in his job?

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