@MangyInseam
Thank you for posting your experience. I found that a better explanation of at least some professional involvement in this bizarre area than the knee jerk of ‘they must be evil’.
I am sure that there are some who are truly malicious, sadistic or possibly envious of normality. Your acquaintance, though, chimes with what I have observed of several, maybe many, women’s attitudes. They are so eager to be ‘tolerant’ and ‘accepting ‘ , all the good qualities that have been wrapped up in the bundle of ‘be kind’ , that their natural discrimination ( in the proper and original sense of the word) has been subsumed into passivity in the face of damage.
I used to be a member of the WI . We had a ‘talk’ from a MTF who had been married to an official of the organisation. They were eagerly promoting the necessity of accepting MTF into female spaces, because they are, of course, ‘women’ . Afterwards at coffee, the members were gushing about how nice the speaker was ( though there was quite a bit of unintentional misgendering, due to the physical actuality of the speaker),and how there was obviously nothing to worry about in welcoming people like the speaker into womens spaces.
So I thought ‘ o, be brave’ and said that I didn’t agree, I thought it was open to abuse by less benign persons than the speaker, and although I didn’t mind the dress and the lipstick, I didn’t think that made them acceptable in intimate spaces. There was a bit of silence. Then rather a lot of quiet agreement.
the speaker and the spouse no longer live in the same county as each other , btw.