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Kemi Badenoch appointed new Minister for Women and Equalities

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Manteiga · 25/10/2022 19:21

And International Trade Secretary. I'd have preferred to see her as Secretary of State for Education in addition to Minister for Women and Equalities, but this is good news.

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electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 10:55

AutumnCrow · 26/10/2022 09:09

the LGBT community generally

No such thing though. It's construct of Stonewall.

I’m gay, I’m a member of the LGBT community. It very much does exist - whether those in it accept the T or not.

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 11:00

Having (skim) read the debate on buffer zones, KB made no contribution (other than voting against) so I'm not sure what her reasoning was. Could have been from the pov of defending freedom of speech, thought, belief; or from a concern about police training; or from a pro-life pov; or from thinking existing laws were already in place and concern over poorly made legislation.

Unsurprisingly, it was a far more complicated and nuanced discussion than some posts might have suggested. I can see both sides, although I personally would support buffer zones. And the vote carried, anyway.

MariEllie · 26/10/2022 11:01

verastan · 26/10/2022 07:20

Yes when people get called right wing for refusing to believe TWAW , then I can’t take any accusations of anyone being right wing without complete proof seriously any more. Yet another way in which gender ideology has reduced what should be a serious accusation to ‘they won’t agree with me

Absolutely agree 100% with this.

Also laughing at the poster who recommended an article by the NYT to explain CRT as if the NYT is impartial on this subject. Perhaps that poster should read "woke Racism" by John McWhorter.

We have Kemi to thank for commissioning the Cass review which has precipitated some major developments in women's and children's rights recently which were under threat from trans ideology. Seems like a perfect fit for equalities minister.

NYT is the heart of woke! 😀

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 11:01
  • well, it's going through HoL just now.

www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-63302710

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 11:07

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 09:24

I think some people believe that because it’s ‘exclusionary’, it’s not progressive.

Don't you mean that because some people who don't agree with it have labelled it 'exclusionary', it's not progressive? It's anti-women activists who have labelled gender critical people 'terfs'.

The left is generally associated with progressive ideology, the right with traditional.

What do you mean by 'progressive'? What is this 'progressive ideology' progressing towards? What does this utopia look like?

The advancement of LGBT rights is mostly associated with the left, therefore the general public might be inclined to see GC thought as right wing.

There is nothing left wing about everyone doing what they want with no consideration for other groups. The communist party is one of the few political parties who agree with gender critical feminists about genderism.

However, the advancement of women’s rights is also associated with the left. Sex-based rights and gender-based rights are in conflict though. Maybe they’re both left wing but just opposing sides of an argument.

I can't see how you can argue that genderism is left wing. It's to do with the rights of the individual overriding the rights of women as a class. How is that in any way left wing?

Sorry I’m on my phone so it’s difficult for me to right my responses to your individual points. Yes I agree with your first point - because those who are not GC have labelled it as exclusionary, they are likely to see it as anti progressive and therefore right wing. I don’t know this for definite - this was just a suggestion about why GC views may be seen as right wing. I think the progressiveness of the left is associated with better rights for everyone, particularly minorities. Trans people are a minority. I don’t think the advancement of LGBT rights is about everyone doing what they want with no consideration for everyone else - the right to love who you love doesn’t impact anyone else. The only LGBT rights that may impact anyone else are obviously to do with the T. It’s a complex argument and it’s difficult for me to articulate myself well because I simply don’t know enough about the history of transgenderism to argue why it’s left wing - I just think those in favour of better rights for trans people would view themselves as on the left. I don’t think the left and right really exist in terms of social values anymore, it’s not as clear as it is in terms of economics etc. I also think trans people would see themselves as a class in the same way that women are, and most don’t necessarily want their rights to override that of women, but women’s sex based rights and trans gender rights can’t simultaneously exist, so the conflict arises.

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 11:07

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 10:55

I’m gay, I’m a member of the LGBT community. It very much does exist - whether those in it accept the T or not.

As someone who is not part of the LGBT community, could you explain to me what the connection is between 'T' and LGB? Up until a few years ago, there was no 'T' tagged on to LGB.

Most older adults who transition are males who are attracted to women. What do these men have in common with the LGB community (apart from being the same sex as some of them)?

nilsmousehammer · 26/10/2022 11:11

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 10:55

I’m gay, I’m a member of the LGBT community. It very much does exist - whether those in it accept the T or not.

I'm a homosexual female and I don't agree. Unfortunately the 'LGBT community' is now a statement of a political group of people of any sexuality, straight included, who hold a particular political position, much of which is homophobic.

It's no community I'm part of, it doesn't want me and I don't want anything to do with it. It doesn't speak for me.

The community ended the minute it stopped being a diverse group of people who's one and only characteristic in common was homosexuality, whether fully homosexual or experiencing homosexuality alongside hetersexuality as a bisexual person.

No longer the case. No longer a 'community' that anyone homosexual is forcibly hoovered up into.

I'm no longer willing to use the words 'lesbian' and 'gay' for the same reason. They've been made political labels, signifying nothing more than political TQ+ compliance.

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 11:14

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 11:07

As someone who is not part of the LGBT community, could you explain to me what the connection is between 'T' and LGB? Up until a few years ago, there was no 'T' tagged on to LGB.

Most older adults who transition are males who are attracted to women. What do these men have in common with the LGB community (apart from being the same sex as some of them)?

I’ve been asked this question before and I’m honestly not sure how to answer it. I think the only thing that unites us is that we’re “different” and the fear that once people have come for the T, they’ll come for us. The same arguments about gay men in particular used during the 80s and more historically, are now used against trans people. I’m not saying I’m pro trans, or that I’m GC. I don’t understand trans people - I’m not trans, I don’t know what it feels like to be “in the wrong body”. But then heterosexual people don’t know what it’s like to be attracted to the same sex and yet most support my right to do so, so I feel as though I owe the trans community some understanding as the general public understand me. I think because of things like the stonewall riots and the history of the link between LGB and T we’ve been linked together, but we’re completely different things. One is about sexuality, one is about gender/sex. I do think there is a sense of community between all branches of LGBTQ+ though, I don’t know what it is that actually unites us, but I think we can somehow relate to one another. Just from attending pride events and reading about experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals, there is something that makes us a community. But at the same time, any minority who’s been persecuted could also unite under the same umbrella. Sorry that’s so long winded and doesn’t actually answer the question - in simple terms, I don’t know.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:16

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 10:18

More from the Public Order Bill on buffer zones:

'I am surprised we are debating this again. It was only in 2018 when the Home Office concluded there was no need to introduce so-called buffer zones. I am referring here to new clause 11. Buffer zones are disproportionate in the restrictions they impose on freedom of expression, and unnecessary in that there remains a lack of evidence that they are needed. The Government have recently affirmed this position, and rightly so given that existing laws enable the police and local authorities to deal with protests that are harmful. Before we rush to create new laws, it is only right that the Government expect the police and local authorities to use their current powers appropriately and where necessary.

The 2018 review showed that

“it would not be proportionate to introduce a blanket ban”

as the evidence found that protests occurred at less than 10% of abortion clinics. That is a very small number. Of course—we emphasise this point—any kind of harassment is absolutely wrong. It should be dealt with by the law and can be dealt with by existing laws. We have heard much in the debate about how we should turn to existing laws, rather than create new ones. Any remedy must be proportionate to the problem. The review—not my
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review, but an objective Government review—concluded that most of the activities during these protests were passive in nature. My hon. Friend the Member for Congleton (Fiona Bruce), in a very powerful speech, described just how passive they can be. They can be standing there and praying silently, not even holding up a banner of any nature or saying anything. It could include praying or handing out leaflets. The review found that disruptive or aggressive behaviour was the exception, not the norm. Crucially, it also confirmed that the police have the necessary powers already to take action and protect the public when protests become harmful or disruptive. A blanket ban of the kind proposed in new clause 11 would be disproportionate in the face of those facts. The law must be proportionate.'

Edward Leigh

Sounds fair, so long as police forces have got two police officers spare to monitor all protests and arrest the "protestors" who will inevitably be harrassing women as that is the entire point of their "protest".

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 11:18

Yeah, I don't agree with the arguments and hope the bill goes through with that clause added.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:25

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 10:55

I’m gay, I’m a member of the LGBT community. It very much does exist - whether those in it accept the T or not.

Surely there is an L community and a T community and a LGB community and a T community and an LGBT community?

Assuming I am correct the next question is "do all of those communities make sense?". IMHO all make sense apart from LGBT.

The LGBT community makes no sense unless the T says that a TW who likes men is a gay man, or that the L says that TW who likes women is a lesbian. Given that the L ceases to exists if the L says men can be Ls, then he only way the LGBT community makes sense is if the T accepts biological reality.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:28

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 11:00

Having (skim) read the debate on buffer zones, KB made no contribution (other than voting against) so I'm not sure what her reasoning was. Could have been from the pov of defending freedom of speech, thought, belief; or from a concern about police training; or from a pro-life pov; or from thinking existing laws were already in place and concern over poorly made legislation.

Unsurprisingly, it was a far more complicated and nuanced discussion than some posts might have suggested. I can see both sides, although I personally would support buffer zones. And the vote carried, anyway.

It is also possible that she supported buffer zones but with reservations, and voted against in the knowledge that the legislation would go through anyway, but that the closer the vote the more it would be clear it was a complex issue. I have certainly voted for things I don;t want in the past for similar reasons (eg in an incredibly safe labour seat years ago I have voted green in order to send a message to the inevitable labour winner that the environment is important.)

DdraigGoch · 26/10/2022 11:31

floradora · 26/10/2022 08:31

"Has never voted on allowing marriage between two people of the same sex"

Well no shit, equal marriage became law in 2013. Kemi only entered Parliament in 2017. She's never had the chance to vote on the issue.

This is precisely why the simplistic statements made by that site are unhelpful. There is no context and no nuance.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:44

electricdreaming · 26/10/2022 11:07

Sorry I’m on my phone so it’s difficult for me to right my responses to your individual points. Yes I agree with your first point - because those who are not GC have labelled it as exclusionary, they are likely to see it as anti progressive and therefore right wing. I don’t know this for definite - this was just a suggestion about why GC views may be seen as right wing. I think the progressiveness of the left is associated with better rights for everyone, particularly minorities. Trans people are a minority. I don’t think the advancement of LGBT rights is about everyone doing what they want with no consideration for everyone else - the right to love who you love doesn’t impact anyone else. The only LGBT rights that may impact anyone else are obviously to do with the T. It’s a complex argument and it’s difficult for me to articulate myself well because I simply don’t know enough about the history of transgenderism to argue why it’s left wing - I just think those in favour of better rights for trans people would view themselves as on the left. I don’t think the left and right really exist in terms of social values anymore, it’s not as clear as it is in terms of economics etc. I also think trans people would see themselves as a class in the same way that women are, and most don’t necessarily want their rights to override that of women, but women’s sex based rights and trans gender rights can’t simultaneously exist, so the conflict arises.

@electricdreaming said - It’s a complex argument and it’s difficult for me to articulate myself well because I simply don’t know enough about the history of transgenderism to argue why it’s left wing - I just think those in favour of better rights for trans people would view themselves as on the left.

Surely the whole trans debate shows precisely why we have to ignore how people view themselves and focus on reality?

It is perfectly possible for people's self-perception to be 100% a provably the complete opposite of the truth, so the idea that self-perception on something subjective (whether one's views are left or right wing) has any real value seems nonsensical.

To my mind the left is about fighting for the rights of the oppressed - both large oppressed groups like "ordinary people" and smaller oppressed groups like lesbians or trans people. It is about economic justice, and believers in justice often seek social justice as well.

The left includes two groups who are doing massive harm, both directly and by diluting the potential of the economic left to achieve change

(1) Good people who have not thought the T issue through.

(2) People who support queer theory, either out of naivity or a desire to destroy society.

It only appears to be a left wing issue because the left tends to be more progressive and if you don't think at all deeply the issue appears to be a progressive one.

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 11:45

DdraigGoch · 26/10/2022 11:31

"Has never voted on allowing marriage between two people of the same sex"

Well no shit, equal marriage became law in 2013. Kemi only entered Parliament in 2017. She's never had the chance to vote on the issue.

This is precisely why the simplistic statements made by that site are unhelpful. There is no context and no nuance.

It was the Northern Ireland vote in 2019. She was absent, as were 189 other MPs.

www.theyworkforyou.com/divisions/pw-2019-07-09-427-commons/mp/25693

WhyAmIPayingFees · 26/10/2022 11:45

Really disappointed by Badenoch's appointment TBH. Her position on reproductive rights is pretty awful. Her opposition to buffer zones around clinics to stop women being harassed by evangelical nut jobs was appalling, as are the arguments that this is somehow an restriction on civil liberties - pure BS - people can protest in any number of locations and can pray at home. As was her opposition to abortion pills by post. She has sat on the fence on several other important issues. I'm a lot more sympathetic to getting a more balanced view on trans issues, including ensuring safe spaces for women and fairness in sports, but she is not really providing that either, instead making trashy comments on trans rights to appeal to the tabloids rather than trying to establish a principled balance of rights. Under most circumstances I'd leap for joy at a young black woman moving into a senior government position, but she is just awful. I think it is a repugnant appointment.

WahineToa · 26/10/2022 11:46

Well no shit, equal marriage became law in 2013. Kemi only entered Parliament in 2017. She's never had the chance to vote on the issue.

I thought this deserved to be in bold for the sillies that came and posted links to that misinformation site but hadn’t bothered checking the basics about the woman they were demonising without knowing anything about her.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:46

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 11:07

As someone who is not part of the LGBT community, could you explain to me what the connection is between 'T' and LGB? Up until a few years ago, there was no 'T' tagged on to LGB.

Most older adults who transition are males who are attracted to women. What do these men have in common with the LGB community (apart from being the same sex as some of them)?

They have a desire to have sex with lesbians, just like lesbians do?

They have a desire to do things sexually that would be rejected as immoral by a stereotypical vicar from the 1920s?

Nope, can't think of any other reason why straight men should be lumped in with the LGB.

WahineToa · 26/10/2022 11:48

@WhyAmIPayingFees have you read the full thread or anything more on buffer zones?

Having had a medical abortion and having gone home alone for it to happen, I think I can understand some objections to it.

WahineToa · 26/10/2022 11:49

Under most circumstances I'd leap for joy at a young black woman moving into a senior government position, but she is just awful. I think it is a repugnant appointment.

Not the right kind of black woman? Repugnant, really? Your comment is appalling. Truly.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 11:50

WhyAmIPayingFees · 26/10/2022 11:45

Really disappointed by Badenoch's appointment TBH. Her position on reproductive rights is pretty awful. Her opposition to buffer zones around clinics to stop women being harassed by evangelical nut jobs was appalling, as are the arguments that this is somehow an restriction on civil liberties - pure BS - people can protest in any number of locations and can pray at home. As was her opposition to abortion pills by post. She has sat on the fence on several other important issues. I'm a lot more sympathetic to getting a more balanced view on trans issues, including ensuring safe spaces for women and fairness in sports, but she is not really providing that either, instead making trashy comments on trans rights to appeal to the tabloids rather than trying to establish a principled balance of rights. Under most circumstances I'd leap for joy at a young black woman moving into a senior government position, but she is just awful. I think it is a repugnant appointment.

How do you balance the right of a man to destroy women's spaces by making them mixed sex, and the right of a woman to have a space for women?

MarshaBradyo · 26/10/2022 11:50

WahineToa · 26/10/2022 11:49

Under most circumstances I'd leap for joy at a young black woman moving into a senior government position, but she is just awful. I think it is a repugnant appointment.

Not the right kind of black woman? Repugnant, really? Your comment is appalling. Truly.

Agree.

TheClogLady · 26/10/2022 11:53

ArabellaScott · 26/10/2022 10:07

Perhaps. I had an abortion in a mixed gynae ward. It was quite hard mixing with other women, answering the 'why are you here' question. I expect it may have been hard for them, too.

I suspect there are pros and cons of both set ups.
Clinics will have dedicated staff who are all signed up to the specifics of the job whereas a hospital environment will have some conscientious objectors on staff (even in an OB/GYN department, although why doctors choose that specialism if they won’t even help women with ectopics or spontaneous partial or unviable pregnancies due to serious illness of woman or foetus is beyond me).

I expect the real reason for separate clinics is private providers and NHS commissioning of private providers. The one clinic I’ve been to had a very long gated drive with an intercom so in effect, it’s own built in ‘buffer zone’.

The right to peaceful protest (against anything) is an important one, and women accessing a legal service have a right not to be harassed, but surely we have enough laws already in place to prevent protest becoming harassment?

The Christian religious protestors here used to turn up on the weekends leading up to Easter (IIRC). Sometimes counter protestors would go and make fun of them in a mild ‘down with this sort of thing’ Father Ted way.

Perhaps a more productive way to support women and circumvent protestors would be free (crowdfunded?) taxis for clinic users (perhaps dropping at a fire exit) on days that protests are scheduled (and any unscheduled protests can be dispersed by police?).

I don’t necessarily have the answers but I’m uncomfortable with any moves to reduce civil liberties any further regardless of good intent - authoritarianism does not tend to work out well for women and I don’t think it’s unfeminist to recognise this.

OldCrone · 26/10/2022 11:53

WahineToa · 26/10/2022 11:46

Well no shit, equal marriage became law in 2013. Kemi only entered Parliament in 2017. She's never had the chance to vote on the issue.

I thought this deserved to be in bold for the sillies that came and posted links to that misinformation site but hadn’t bothered checking the basics about the woman they were demonising without knowing anything about her.

It's not misinformation. As I already posted, it was the Northern Ireland vote in 2019 when she was absent. They only include voting records for the time when the MP was in Parliament.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 26/10/2022 12:00

TheClogLady · 26/10/2022 11:53

I suspect there are pros and cons of both set ups.
Clinics will have dedicated staff who are all signed up to the specifics of the job whereas a hospital environment will have some conscientious objectors on staff (even in an OB/GYN department, although why doctors choose that specialism if they won’t even help women with ectopics or spontaneous partial or unviable pregnancies due to serious illness of woman or foetus is beyond me).

I expect the real reason for separate clinics is private providers and NHS commissioning of private providers. The one clinic I’ve been to had a very long gated drive with an intercom so in effect, it’s own built in ‘buffer zone’.

The right to peaceful protest (against anything) is an important one, and women accessing a legal service have a right not to be harassed, but surely we have enough laws already in place to prevent protest becoming harassment?

The Christian religious protestors here used to turn up on the weekends leading up to Easter (IIRC). Sometimes counter protestors would go and make fun of them in a mild ‘down with this sort of thing’ Father Ted way.

Perhaps a more productive way to support women and circumvent protestors would be free (crowdfunded?) taxis for clinic users (perhaps dropping at a fire exit) on days that protests are scheduled (and any unscheduled protests can be dispersed by police?).

I don’t necessarily have the answers but I’m uncomfortable with any moves to reduce civil liberties any further regardless of good intent - authoritarianism does not tend to work out well for women and I don’t think it’s unfeminist to recognise this.

I approve of your reservations and believe that in theory harrassment laws should be able to do the job... but my problem is that their "protests" are literally nothing but standing around waiting for someone to harrass.

There is a big difference between protesting the law and "protesting" indivuduals exercising their rights under the law.

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