In the words of Tracee Ellis Ross:
Women have been trained to think that we are over reacting or that we are being too sensitive or unreasonable.
We try to make sense of nonsense and we swallow the furious feelings.
We try to put them in some hidden place in our minds but they do not go away.
That fury sits deep inside as we practice our smiles and try to be pleasant because women are not supposed to get angry.
When someone thinks they can help themselves to our bodies (and my addition - our words and our spaces). it not only ignites the current fury, it lights up the past.
The global collective of women's experiences can no longer be ignored.
Time is up on thinking that we are over reacting or that this is just the way it is.
Time is up on women being held responsible for men's wrong behaviour.
Women, I encourage you to acknowledge your fury. Give it language. Your fury is not something to be afraid of. It holds lifetimes of wisdom.
Let it breath and listen.