There is always a way to make this work. Peacefully. For everyone.
It involves having, for example, a mixed sex service for women by which is meant, politely, biologically female people and male people who identify as women, plus an additional service for female only people who cannot access a mixed sex service or surrender to a more powerful group's demand that they pretend that sex does not exist or affect them.
A rape crisis service for shattered women for example.
There can be male centred ones, LGBT+ centred ones, women's mixed sex ones, who does it harm that there is a female one too? Other than the vanity of those who wish to be more important and to have more than others, and to see raped women excluded and punished for failing to put servicing their needs first.
Or school girls unable to use toilets.
Women unable to use changing rooms.
Women who can't swim.
There are answers to all of this, really easy ones, and then everyone could co exist in peace and harmy. Why is this not happening?
Well the TQ+ political lobby would tell you it's because mean and evil witches keep saying no and refusing to obey and surrender.
The women would tell you to look at the group with all the power, all the control, and then to note the biological sexes involved. And there it is, plain as day. Males have the power to exclude and harm women if they want to by denying females access to services. Even services in other buildings, in the dark of night, miles away from any male person affected. Just knowing those disobedient women are getting their needs met makes male people angry.
Meet the 21st century. Really not that different to the 1st Century when the Romans walked in and introduced patriarchial dominance to the UK. Hi women, we own you, we own everything you own, you get nothing but what we choose to permit you after we've met our own needs.
I don't understand how anyone can be surprised that women are not responding to this with cries of joy and co operation.
This is so very easy to fix. It just takes male people coping with giving female people equality of access and consideration, and freedom of belief instead of demanding unconditional surrender.