That's not really it for me.
Even without self id in law we are at a situation now where woman no longer have single sex spaces and the words that have always been used to describe us, are being replaced with terms that are dehumanising. And it's only happening for woman, not men.
It's not just about safety. We are already at greater risk now because the number of TW has exploded recently. Tw were born male so the risk from them is the same as it is from cis males. So even if the person has genuine gender dysphoria, and are living as a TW, they are as much of a risk as anyone else.
And the there is dignity.
Not once have I heard a TRA acknowledge that TW being in female spaces impacts woman. All I ever hear about is the danger to TW of using male spaces.
Even without self id, things are already an awful lot more dangerous for women, especially young girls / young woman.
Up until now, numbers of Transexuals have been very low and on many have respected/ understood that there is differences between them and women. That respect has kept woman safe. Perhaps they did use ladies facilities but it was so few and far between, and there was consideration that it didn't really impact us.
The respect for woman is no longer there. I don't think it will come back even if self ID is not brought in.
I don't know where we go, without devastating consequences for either woman and at the opposite end devastating consequences for TW.
I don't want to see either group suffer. Unfortunately Stonewall / TRAs have made it impossible for all of us now.