Ugh, I've had enough with this "willful misgendering" bullshit. What about grown adults willfully coercing children into lying?!
Of course we shouldn't tolerate kids being mean to other kids just because of the way they dress or act. But using correct language is not "being mean" FFS. And whilst in the past I've been convinced into thinking that it's a much bigger deal for the confused, bullied, downtrodden transperson than it is for me, an uninvested bystander, it's become increasingly obvious that this pronouns bollocks is actually affecting all of us, trans or not.