All this gender woo comes down to the basic fact that there are men, women and personalities. The whole trans ideology is regressive - shoving people back into the boxes that history/culture designated as suitable for their sex - yes, their sex.
As a kid I had what was deemed a typical 'male' personality with typical 'male' interests (I still have) but no one suggested I was really a boy: nor did I. Their were the odd comments that I could be a lesbian - that was the other trope used decades ago to shove people into gender boxes. But, decades later here I am - widowed now but married for over 50 years, straight, a mum and grandmum - still with typical 'male' interests and career path.
I dread to think the path I might have been steered down if I were a kid these days. Poor 'gender' atypical children today. I fear desperately for their future.
The sooner we consign that useless word 'gender', which no two people seem to be able to define, to history the better. Back to men, women, boys, girls and personalities.