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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Waitrose delivery driver

633 replies

MsMoorhead · 09/06/2022 08:16

Kellie Jay-Keen reported by her Waitrose delivery driver!

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LK1972 · 10/06/2022 10:11

If she wanted the driver sacked she would have called Waitrose straight after the incident. She is outraged at getting told off by Waitrose when she did nothing wrong

IcakethereforeIam · 10/06/2022 10:12

KJK is trying to get Carol sacked?

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:14

Belovedfool · 10/06/2022 09:57

"I'll take my time" when asked to leave her property, and a very very VERY clear statement of his absolute intention to share changing rooms and toilet space with her daughter (which you'd have to be a little dense not to realise is gloating AND an implied threat) mean the driver is not a squeaky clean little innocent here, Discovereads.

Are you prepared to be honest and accept that, publicly?

It’s not that clear.
Again “I’ll take my time” rude but understandable after just being sworn at, and not a refusal to leave but rather a reluctant agreement to leave.

On the shared spaces thing. KJK related tit for tat what was said to its conclusion of get off my property and the driver leaving. There was no mention of the driver saying this. It is only much later in the video, when talking about the Dear Carol letter does she then allege the driver said they’d be sharing spaces with her daughter. Its not in her initial account of events. However you look at it, it’s her changing her side of the story. I’m not saying she’s lying, but it’s not clear cut.

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:14

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:01

I’m afraid you have it backwards. It’s “gender critical” that is designated as a protected belief akin to religion. You can’t expect a society (which has passed laws like the Gender Recognition Act and written numerous scientific texts on gender identity) to play along with your belief that gender identity does not exist.

Akin to. Have a read of that again champ. Belief in an innate gender is not akin to a religious view, it is a religious view.

Why are you trying to claim that a man with gender dysphoria is really a woman?

RoseslnTheHospital · 10/06/2022 10:14

So in topsy-turvy world, responding to allegations made by someone else is trying to get them sacked... If you are accused by an organisation of treating their employee badly and warned as to your future conduct, you are entitled to respond to that.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:15

LK1972 · 10/06/2022 10:11

If she wanted the driver sacked she would have called Waitrose straight after the incident. She is outraged at getting told off by Waitrose when she did nothing wrong

She wants the driver sacked now. I agree she did not until she got the letter. She feels she was justified in verbally abusing the driver.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/06/2022 10:18

There are lots of people upset today that womyn are thinking for themselves!

RoseslnTheHospital · 10/06/2022 10:19

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:15

She wants the driver sacked now. I agree she did not until she got the letter. She feels she was justified in verbally abusing the driver.

Seriously... do you have access to the inner thoughts of KJ?? How the heck do you know that she wants the driver sacked??

NecessaryScene · 10/06/2022 10:20

Yes, they collect data on other religious beliefs too. You know this though, so why the disingenuity?

I recall when they started doing this, it was rather controversial, and somewhat mocked.

Hence the push to get lots of people to put "Jedi" in there to get it "officially recognised".

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:23

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:14

Akin to. Have a read of that again champ. Belief in an innate gender is not akin to a religious view, it is a religious view.

Why are you trying to claim that a man with gender dysphoria is really a woman?

Sorry, “gender critical” is the (fringe) philosophical/religious view

“Are gender critical views capable of amounting to a philosophical belief? Yes, decided the Employment Appeal Tribunal (EAT) in Forstater v CGD Europe UKEAT/0105/20. Religion or belief is a protected characteristic, in accordance with Section 10 of the Equality Act 2010”
www.rcn.org.uk/magazines/advice/2021/september/legal-update-gender-critical-views-and-belief-protection

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:24

RoseslnTheHospital · 10/06/2022 10:19

Seriously... do you have access to the inner thoughts of KJ?? How the heck do you know that she wants the driver sacked??

I watched her video. That’s how I know.

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:26

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:23

Sorry, “gender critical” is the (fringe) philosophical/religious view

“Are gender critical views capable of amounting to a philosophical belief? Yes, decided the Employment Appeal Tribunal (EAT) in Forstater v CGD Europe UKEAT/0105/20. Religion or belief is a protected characteristic, in accordance with Section 10 of the Equality Act 2010”
www.rcn.org.uk/magazines/advice/2021/september/legal-update-gender-critical-views-and-belief-protection

It is not a fringe view that a man in a dress claiming to be a woman is still male.

It’s the majority view, and accords with the facts. No matter how much it upsets you that people won’t play along, it’s not going to happen.

Telling a trans male that they are a woman is identical to telling an anorexic that they are obese.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 10/06/2022 10:27

KJK related tit for tat what was said to its conclusion of get off my property and the driver leaving.

I'm confused. I thought your earlier stance was that KJK was an unreliable narrator and you were emphatic that nobody knew the driver's version of the event? It seems that you're now relying upon her version of events but insisting upon your own interpretation and editorialisation as a Received Truth.

GCRich · 10/06/2022 10:29

@Discovereads I have to say that you are one of the most eloquent TRAs I have ever seen on this board. If you were to actually make a valid point I'd be dead impressed

Johnnysgirl · 10/06/2022 10:30

Sorry, “gender critical” is the (fringe) philosophical/religious view
Oh, you wish... But wishing won't make it so. thank Christ

RoseslnTheHospital · 10/06/2022 10:32

@Discovereads can you tell us the time in the video where she says that, thanks.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/06/2022 10:33

I can't be arsed reading the last few pages but I hope that the driver is sacked.

NecessaryScene · 10/06/2022 10:34

I have to say that you are one of the most eloquent TRAs I have ever seen on this board.

I'll second that. It's actually like a real debate.

Debating GC people is probably a bit transphobic, tbh. You shouldn't be coplatforming with us. 😁

Can folks maybe cut down on the crappy Mumsnet quote function though? Just had to scroll past two screenfuls of a single six-layer-nested quote.

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:38

YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/06/2022 10:33

I can't be arsed reading the last few pages but I hope that the driver is sacked.

Hopefully the next woman he intimidates gives him a kick in the balls.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:44

@CanaryWharf2
On gender critical beliefs you said:
”It’s the majority view, and accords with the facts. No matter how much it upsets you that people won’t play along, it’s not going to happen.”

You can think that, but then there are the facts. Every year YouGov publish a report on the attitudes of the British public to transgendered people. It asks very straight questions such as:

(1) Is a transgender woman a woman, (marginally most people think so).
(2) Is a transgender man a man, (again the majority of people think so).
(3) Should trans women be able to use a Ladies loo, (the vast majority of people think so).

And of course, there are many more questions too. A link to the survey is below. In the main, people appear to be more "trans-friendly" if they are young, left-wing or liberal. The survey shows one other very significant point, though. Women are more trans-friendly than men.

yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2020/07/16/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights

Johnnysgirl · 10/06/2022 10:47

That survey was commissioned by Pink News... A targeted audience, don't you think?!

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:48

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:44

@CanaryWharf2
On gender critical beliefs you said:
”It’s the majority view, and accords with the facts. No matter how much it upsets you that people won’t play along, it’s not going to happen.”

You can think that, but then there are the facts. Every year YouGov publish a report on the attitudes of the British public to transgendered people. It asks very straight questions such as:

(1) Is a transgender woman a woman, (marginally most people think so).
(2) Is a transgender man a man, (again the majority of people think so).
(3) Should trans women be able to use a Ladies loo, (the vast majority of people think so).

And of course, there are many more questions too. A link to the survey is below. In the main, people appear to be more "trans-friendly" if they are young, left-wing or liberal. The survey shows one other very significant point, though. Women are more trans-friendly than men.

yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2020/07/16/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights

You know that this is because normal people are confused by the names, so think a trans woman is a natal female. When this is corrected the stats of course revert to what you’d expect.

You really are demonstrating all of the standard TRA lies and obfuscations here. It’s strange, have none of you actually got enough education and intelligence to try to firm a valid, honest argument?

It’s as though you all got your degrees from Bournemouth.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:51

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 10/06/2022 10:27

KJK related tit for tat what was said to its conclusion of get off my property and the driver leaving.

I'm confused. I thought your earlier stance was that KJK was an unreliable narrator and you were emphatic that nobody knew the driver's version of the event? It seems that you're now relying upon her version of events but insisting upon your own interpretation and editorialisation as a Received Truth.

I (and others) have mentioned that we don’t have the delivery drivers side of the story, which no one has objected to. I have said her video is barely coherent. If you listen to it she interrupts herself constantly to go on about completely unrelated things. So it makes it challenging to piece together her side of the story. But I don’t think she is an unreliable narrator as a whole as I think she is being honest with only one questionable piece which is when she appears to materially change her story in her response letter to Waitrose.

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 10:59

CanaryWharf2 · 10/06/2022 10:48

You know that this is because normal people are confused by the names, so think a trans woman is a natal female. When this is corrected the stats of course revert to what you’d expect.

You really are demonstrating all of the standard TRA lies and obfuscations here. It’s strange, have none of you actually got enough education and intelligence to try to firm a valid, honest argument?

It’s as though you all got your degrees from Bournemouth.

So, it’s not obfuscation to claim that “normal people” are too stupid to fill out a You.gov survey correctly because the results don’t support your claim as to what the majority view is in Britain? And it’s not a lie to to say “when this is corrected the stats revert” when you know no such “correction” was needed or exists on You.gov?

How is posting an actual You.gov survey supporting my assertion being dishonest?

Discovereads · 10/06/2022 11:06

Johnnysgirl · 10/06/2022 10:47

That survey was commissioned by Pink News... A targeted audience, don't you think?!

Yougov carried out the survey so PinkNews could not have influenced who responded to the survey or how they responded. YouGov is an international research data and analytics group. A study by the Pew Research Center concluded that YouGov “consistently outperforms competitors on accuracy”

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