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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A transwoman feeding their new born baby with their own milk..

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Soubriquet · 21/05/2022 14:43

A website has said they have lost many followers with supporting this.

I just don’t understand why this is being promoted. If men in general were able to breastfeed children, why is this not being encouraged among married couples? Im sure plenty of men would be willing to step up and share breastfeeding with their partner.

It can’t be healthy for a baby to be fed this way, as surely the transwoman would be taking multiple type of hormones in order to remain transitioned?

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Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 13:51

I suggest anyone interested who has not encountered this before also Google pregnancy fantasies. And pregnancy photoshoots of simulated pregnancies for males.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 13:57

Maybe someone could find the South American transitioned male model photo with a baby ‘breastfeeding’ that was being fawned over a year or so ago. Where the baby was a prop to the pouting model. I cannot find it anywhere, I assume they removed it because the optics of any male or female using a baby to suckle at their nipple for a photo shoot as a prop should be questioned. For whose benefit was that artistic photo taken?

KimikosNightmare · 22/05/2022 14:46

holibobs12 · 21/05/2022 22:07

Actually sexual stimulation is one of the reasons women why do give. It's a natural reaction to oxytocin but many women don't realise that- no one ever tells them- and ignorant comments like yours won't help.

@KimikosNightmare

What did I say that's ignornant?? Ahem?? Move pls.

here you go. Here's your ignorant comment

@holibobs12 "If you have sexual stimulation feeding your baby, it may be time to stop."

Here's only one of many links from similar reasearch to the anecdotes of individual women.

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3431754/

holibobs12 · 22/05/2022 14:49

@KimikosNightmare

Where's the ignorance? I stand by that, I do not care. Why would you even want to continue if your feeling aroused doing it. You must be someone who experienced it firsthand, One of the 50%.

holibobs12 · 22/05/2022 14:51

We are not even talking about women. A tw feeling aroused at feeding is bloody weird, there's not even any nutritional benefit it's purely for their benefit. Not bothered by whatever buzzwords you throw my way. Next.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 16:27

Here is the article I was searching for. I had it slightly wrong. A transitioned male expert was the one who was putting up alerts about this, not the two people who carried out the treatment.

www.newscientist.com/article/2161151-transgender-woman-is-first-to-be-able-to-breastfeed-her-baby/?utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2116208:Skimlinks.com&utm_content=10&ranMID=47192&ranEAID=TnL5HPStwNw&ranSiteID=TnL5HPStwNw-uOWyW0a0EHFcOxL5MmCf5Q#ixzz6f2Pil0Ik

However, the woman’s breastmilk has not been assessed yet, so we don’t know if it has the same mix of components as in milk from new gestational mothers. This means the practice cannot yet be recommended, says Madeline Deutsch at the University of California, San Francisco. She says she can see the potential benefits of breastfeeding, but that the long-term impact of this milk on the baby – including on subtle measures like IQ – is unknown.

Deutsch herself is a transgender woman with a six-month-old baby who is currently being breastfed by Deutsch’s wife, who was the gestational mother. “I am very sad not to be able to breastfeed her and at the same time I did not consider doing this for the above reasons,” she says.

This was February 2018. I have not seen anything to prove that any in-depth studies have been released since to counter this expert's opinion. And there has been plenty of other threads since this that where these studies would have been posted by activist posters.

So, there we have it. A transitioned male, Associate Professor, Family Community Medicine, is telling the world that this is not advisable until further research.

Yet, we have posters telling us discussing this is transphobic.

Is Madeline Deutsch, a transitioned male, transphobic too?

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 16:38

Here is a trans activist telling women about how breastfeeding anti-discrimination is not a 'sex-based' right.

And here is ACLU back when it did stand up for women's sex based rights.

www.aclu.org/blog/speakeasy/firing-mom-because-shes-breastfeeding-sex-discrimination

A transwoman feeding their new born baby with their own milk..
Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 16:43

As to what other effects on women, I mentioned upthread about the males who have sought access to the breastfeeding groups. Here is a sample (may have already been posted, if so, I apologise).

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/princess-mom?s=r

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 17:13

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 13:20

How is contributing evidence based points to the discussion derailing?

sorry? Did I miss the evidence and the links? I will go back and check.

I went back to check hepatocyte, I have not seen any evidence based points from you. What I did see was:

A whatabout that seemed like it was supposed to be a 'gotcha' about females taking hormones and medications while breastfeeding. You then brought it up as that gotcha by saying this was transphobic:

ignoring the fact that many women take synthetic hormones whilst breastfeeding, and that adoptive mothers have used this protocol previously. As I've said - I would be intersted to know how the levels of synthetic hormones compare, but if that are comparable then we have a lot of safety data.

and

If you know it's common for woman to take synthetic hormones when breastfeeding, don't you think this is the kind of evidence that should be considered when thinking about the safety aspects? Are the hormones & doses comparable? Are risks between woman & transwoman likely to be similar? I just think it's a very relevant point when many posters seem to be claiming this is completely new ground (i.e., babies being exposed to synthethic hormones via breastmilk).

You acknowledge that synthetic hormones and many other substances in the milk produced by lactating females have been well studied, but continue to not bring any evidence relating to the milk of transitioned males to support your continued assertion that we should be using the same studies to deduce what the impact is for lactating males.

You agreeing that it is not essential for the infant. But then in the very next sentence you launch into transphobia and echo chambers.

But the thread is full of transphobia - so many arguments that aren't evidence or science based and a huge amount of derogatory claims. I agree with other posters about it seeming like an echo chamber here and I feel for any transpeople who look at these threads.

I'd like to make a correction here - we are discussing males specifically. Transitioned females who still have breast tissue and have gone through pregnancy to deliver a child should definitely receive extensive support to breastfeed if they wish to. Just like ANY other female.

Then some bad takes of other posts including

-the continued push to try to censure posters for correcting sexing the sex class people who the thread is discussing - male and calling it transphobic.
-Ignoring the continued discussion about the lack of knowledge around the resultant secretions of these males undergoing this process, to bring in a completely ludicrous claim that stating that we would prefer the child be fed milk from another mammal, including cows which most of these infants will receive soon enough anyway, but that cow milk is absolutely known and studied for its suitability for human infant consumption is also transphobic.
-posters refusing to use the term 'milk' for the secretion of unknown chemical make up is also transphobic.

And so on.

Indeed, why is anything that is not in agreement with your views considering derailing? I think this is why the thread gets called an echo chamber.

No. But continuing to call this board an 'echo chamber', using false examples as 'transphobia' and not presenting any evidence to support your claims IS derailing and it seems you have some pretty strong prejudiced views towards posters on this board for your first post on this thread.

Looking forward though to that evidence linked up or some expert rebuttal of links that I and others have posted.

Now, that would result in some interesting discussion and some serious thought provoking posts.

Helleofabore · 22/05/2022 17:56

For the repeated rhetoric around 'you are transphobic if you think it better to feed an infant the secretion of another female mammal vs a transitioned male's secretion'...

What the fuck do you think is in formula?

What the fuck do you think growing babies then start intaking at relevant ages, either in cooking at around 6 months or to drink around 12 months according to the NHS??

And what do you think mothers used to feed babies before formula was available and they were not wealthy enough to have a 'wet nurse'?

I have no idea why this has been brought up as some kind of 'gotcha' by at least 2 posters.

YES! Feeding your child the milk of another female mammal when it has not been fed other chemicals, or using the formula made using the milk of another female mammal IS preferable to having an infant fed by the secretions of unknown nutritional and chemical composition (drugs crossing into that milk) of males.

Why is this being used as a 'your so transphobic and hateful' tactic?

www.medicalhomeportal.org/issue/formula-ingredients-and-components

www.nhs.uk/conditions/baby/weaning-and-feeding/drinks-and-cups-for-babies-and-young-children/

Soubriquet · 22/05/2022 17:58

I can’t believe there are people so desperate to prove they are not “transphobic” that they are saying it’s ok to experiment on a baby like this, as long as the tw is happy.

That source of the baby being fed for 6 weeks isn’t good enough.

It was for 6 weeks and then supplemented with formula. We don’t know what long lasting side effects could happen.

Will it affect the child in the long run?
Will it affect the child as an adult?
What effects could potentially happen?

No. Don’t worry about it! As long as the TW is happy…right?! Hmm

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summer712 · 22/05/2022 18:43

I cant get my head around all this

Just when I think yes I am up to speed on this shit, I get what both sides are arguing against them something else comes up

Is there not one thing that males will want to take away. Ffs.

We are already fucked on the gender pay gap, recommendations for women, toilets ffs and now this?! The one thing we can do without anyone fucking interfering??

You can take our toilets but your not taking my tits. And what they can do. Plazzy or not.

I fucking despair.

summer712 · 22/05/2022 18:44

Soubriquet · 22/05/2022 17:58

I can’t believe there are people so desperate to prove they are not “transphobic” that they are saying it’s ok to experiment on a baby like this, as long as the tw is happy.

That source of the baby being fed for 6 weeks isn’t good enough.

It was for 6 weeks and then supplemented with formula. We don’t know what long lasting side effects could happen.

Will it affect the child in the long run?
Will it affect the child as an adult?
What effects could potentially happen?

No. Don’t worry about it! As long as the TW is happy…right?! Hmm

I am not transphobic at all. But to pump youself full of hormones so you can experience something well fuck me im done. Call me a term I'm no longer arsed.

summer712 · 22/05/2022 18:45

Terf!

Soubriquet · 22/05/2022 19:01

Urm…MNHQ..you are aware summer was correcting what she misspelt rather than calling other people a terf don’t you?

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summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:04

I've just asked why I was deleted there as I wasn't sure what I had said to warrant being deleted

summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:05

Thank you @Soubriquet

summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:07

I will be banned now Shock

Antarcticant · 22/05/2022 19:13

Your deletion has been rescinded, summer (at least I can see it).

Soubriquet · 22/05/2022 19:13

yup. It’s been reversed

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summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:24

It has indeed.

summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:24

It has indeed.

oakleaffy · 22/05/2022 19:45

summer712 · 22/05/2022 19:07

I will be banned now Shock

It’s a sad day when freedom of expression is heavily censored.
Some of. The TW stuff has become very sinister in my opinion, there is Nothing that is “ Off limits” for TW now.
It approaches fetishisation of women.
I wish I’d not viewed the link that was posted about men pretending to “ Lactate”.
We live in very strange times where we are moderated for calling this unwholesome stuff out as a “ Fetish”.

summer712 · 22/05/2022 20:08

I read the Ben Elton book "blind faith" 20 years ago.

If you read it now, it's more to how we live now. Frightening

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