Her words are chilling.
Though adoption can be a wonderful thing, and successful, another aspect to consider is that even when babies are adopted shortly after birth they will experience the trauma of separation and this may affect them mentally all their lives.
Some children, for example of a drug addicted or alcoholic mother, or of a less popular race, or born with a disability will not be adopted quickly if at all and they may have even worse outcomes.
Also, stress during pregnancy, which mothers forced to keep a baby under any circumstances are likely to feel, is now known to harm the baby’s mind.
If an expectant mother is strongly stressed over a longer period of time, the risk of the unborn child developing a mental or physical illness later in life such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or cardiovascular disease increases www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/05/170529090530.htm
Adopted children and later poor mental health:
www.verywellmind.com/what-are-the-mental-health-effects-of-being-adopted-5217799
What about the mental health outcome of a baby born to rape: either if they ever find out, or is their mother has to keep a secret from them?
Ditto children conceived through incest, who may also have genetic complications exacerbated.
One thing that drives me crazy with anger is that if a raped girl or woman bravely decides to keep her baby, the father can have parental rights ( even though parents of adopted babies don’t). In many cases the rapist won’t even be convicted so is even more likely to have PR.