As I see women forget that we can advocate for own needs, I remembered this thread. 2020 and 2021 were really grim for women. This is not the time to remove women's protections in order to be kind to another group.
If we were arguing over the contents of a biscuit packet, men in general have 18 biscuits, women two. And women are being expected to hand over one of our two biscuits to a subset of male people. How about "cis" men ringfence part of their current 18 biscuit budget for the use of male transitioners, instead of demanding we share our two?
Give transitioned males their own protections, not ours.
We are not privileged.
thread from twitter
This has actually made me realise that libfems and fauxminists genuinely think they’re toppling patriarchy, while patriarchy thrives on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, while Covid has created what the UN calls a “shadow pandemic” of male violence against women…🧵
They think patriarchy is waning, while Covid has set women back years in terms of the labour and wage gaps—women have lost jobs they’re unlikely to get back, women were more likely to lose jobs in the first place, our financial independence gains as a class have been destroyed.
“Patriarchy is waning” while America’s Supreme Court is stacked against women for at least a decade, while Roe v Wade is slowly being overturned. While women as a sex class are erased in language—and therefore in thought—around the globe.
“Patriarchy is waning” while women are hypersexualised commodities across our screens, while teenage girls dance on tiktok for what I can only describe as the pedophilic enjoyment of adult men.
Patriarchy can only be seen to be waning if your perspective is that of gender and privilege. Yes, men can now be more gender nonconforming. But the average woman in France, Nigeria, Mexico? Today, she’s at least 3 times more likely to face domestic violence than she was in 2019.
No wonder modern fauxminism is failing—it refuses to see how badly we’re losing. You cannot solve a problem if you cannot see it. Worse yet, if you think you’re winning, while submitting to your oppressor.
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