They will never turn up to an event that’s supposedly for people like them to find that it is actually full of people appropriating their very identity and telling them that the mere fact they had to appropriate it means they are more oppressed and you should prioritize them.
Yup.
Which is the boys' club attitude Starmer and co are luxuriating in when they claim not to see the issue in denying that female humans have any classification or needs or rights of their own. It's never going to be an experience they have after all.