Thanks, enjoyed that, esp
How exactly we are supposed to reach a point where we “deal with sexual violence”, or “get men on board”, or disseminate effective “sex education”, when we can’t even say out loud that choking is bad for us, is a bit of a mystery. But in any case - to repeat the main point - there is no plausible future where we have already dealt with sexual violence, or where the dangerous men are onboard, or where the right sort of sex education has solved it all. That’s a comforting delusion. So we need start talking unambiguously about the problems of encouraging potentially dangerous men to hurt us - right now.