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IsitM · 16/02/2022 14:09

"We want to update on a recent investigation into a breach of our Code of Conduct by a volunteer that received public attention. Girlguiding operates a thorough complaints procedure and takes all concerns raised very seriously.
In this case, the volunteer cooperated fully and the investigation has concluded. The volunteer made the decision to leave and is no longer a volunteer at Girlguiding."

twitter.com/Girlguiding/status/1493948407446224901?s=20&t=bupSPqZjpcdRV0VlXs7QpQ

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SamphiretheStickerist · 18/02/2022 17:07

@MargaritaPie

"I know from experience just which ammunition is considered 'safe' and 'dangerous' and I assure you, that "little plastic balls" being fired from an air weapon can be harmful"

I wasn't trying to say they aren't dangerous. Just pointing out the pictured gun is a legal air gun and not an "assault rifle" as I've seen it called in the media.

Except it was an assault rifle. It was a 'replica' version, a BB assault rifle. That's the point of it.

We aren't stupid, you know. In fact I used to shoot tactical shotgun... fun, if bloody scary at times. They do that with BB guns now. It's safer and remains legal, easier to insure, etc.

LaChanticleer · 18/02/2022 17:15

So what are they saying about calling the police on women who queried the behaviour of said GG [ex] leader?

Any apology?

The Baden-Powells will be swivelling rapidly in their graves.

OnlyTheTitosaurusOfTheIceberg · 18/02/2022 17:22

I don’t give a shit if Susan the Guider goes home from each weekly Guiding meeting, takes off her uniform, puts on a leather dominatrix outfit and spends the rest of her evening beating her partner’s arse with a copy of the Guides’ handbook.

I do give a shit about Susan the Guider having sufficient critical judgement and knowledge of safeguarding to know that dressing as a dominatrix is for the privacy of her bedroom with other consenting adults only, and that any social media accounts she may have must be squeaky clean and make no reference to her sexual preferences or any adult activity incompatible with Girl Guiding’s policies for volunteers. And that complying with the latter does not mean she cannot indulge in her (legal) kinks and fetishes privately.

Most people are intelligent enough to grasp that.

Most.

Helleofabore · 18/02/2022 17:31

@MargaritaPie

"I know from experience just which ammunition is considered 'safe' and 'dangerous' and I assure you, that "little plastic balls" being fired from an air weapon can be harmful"

I wasn't trying to say they aren't dangerous. Just pointing out the pictured gun is a legal air gun and not an "assault rifle" as I've seen it called in the media.

margarita

To be blunt, so what?

Care to answer my question on how a teenager or child will know the difference? And frankly, what does it matter in the scheme of things?

This is sparple. This is a mere distraction tactic.

Helleofabore · 18/02/2022 17:33

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Justkeeppedaling · 18/02/2022 17:52

May I ask @Justkeeppedaling did you make the reason for your resignation known to GG?

Locally, yes. I was called to a disciplinary for being vocal about it on social media - I was "bringing GG into disrepute".
At the disciplinary I was asked if I would comply with GG policies and practices, I said I didn't think I could, and I resigned.

Artichokeleaves · 18/02/2022 18:51

@Justkeeppedaling

May I ask @Justkeeppedaling did you make the reason for your resignation known to GG?

Locally, yes. I was called to a disciplinary for being vocal about it on social media - I was "bringing GG into disrepute".
At the disciplinary I was asked if I would comply with GG policies and practices, I said I didn't think I could, and I resigned.

Good grief.

Women asking questions about safeguarding and fair practice? Call the police! Disciplinary meetings! Absolutely unacceptable! Threats and restrictions!

TW photographing themselves posing with guns in uniform and plastering their sex life everywhere with no concept of appropriacy or policy?

Don't be mean, be kind! Make excuses! Brush it off!

The difference is obvious and it is sex based. Which makes a complete nonsense of insisting that TW should have female only posts because they are also women. This is treating females less favourably on grounds of sex which is by definition discrimination.

MargaritaPie · 18/02/2022 21:28

@LaChanticleer

So what are they saying about calling the police on women who queried the behaviour of said GG [ex] leader?

Any apology?

The Baden-Powells will be swivelling rapidly in their graves.

Re this, I would be interested to see specifically what was said to judge whether the police talking to the complainant was appropriate or not.
LaChanticleer · 18/02/2022 21:55

The difference between us, then @MargaritaPie is that I tend to believe women, especially when they express concerns about fundamental issues around safeguarding.

littlbrowndog · 18/02/2022 22:03

Me too.

Don’t you care about safeguarding children maragarita ?

MargaritaPie · 19/02/2022 02:21

@littlbrowndog

Me too.

Don’t you care about safeguarding children maragarita ?

Of course.

The transwoman leader went through the GG's vetting process just like anyone else and was accepted. If she was considered any risk at all they wouldn't have let her become a leader to begin with.

www.girlguiding.org.uk/making-guiding-happen/policies/recruitment-and-vetting-policy/

Artichokeleaves · 19/02/2022 09:33

But as mentioned above, anyone can have pretty policies, and safeguarding doesn't stop once an appointment has been made.

I really don't know how to explain this in any more simple terms for you. Sad

SolasAnla · 19/02/2022 09:58

@Justkeeppedaling

May I ask @Justkeeppedaling did you make the reason for your resignation known to GG?

Locally, yes. I was called to a disciplinary for being vocal about it on social media - I was "bringing GG into disrepute".
At the disciplinary I was asked if I would comply with GG policies and practices, I said I didn't think I could, and I resigned.

I am sorry you ended up in that position.

Nobody in GG is taking a basic step back and think that they did not and do not have a right to make decisions which should remain the choice of the parent or guardian.

Scouts openly converted from single sex to mixed sex. GG are just hiding the same process.

Justkeeppedaling · 19/02/2022 11:24

Scouts openly converted from single sex to mixed sex. GG are just hiding the same process

But GG have been very vocal and adamant in the past that it should and will remain a single sex organisation. There are so many proven benefits to the girls and women who belong.
Every time the membership is surveyed the overwhelming response is that it should stay single sex.

If you ask the girls directly whether they'd like to have boys in Guides or Brownies, they say no. Typical reasons being that "boys spoil their games" or "boys boss us around" or "boys always win the games" or other similar responses you could probably guess at yourself.

Women too like the opportunity to "just be women". On camp we're free to look like shit! We chop the wood, erect the tents and do other "manly" things. And we like the way we are free to organise things without the hierarchical, often male dominated structure so many of us experience in work.

And yet, here we are in 2020, with all those benefits slowly being eroded.

But here we are in 2020

MargaritaPie · 19/02/2022 13:23

The Girl Guides hasn't changed to mixed sex.

Tiphaine · 19/02/2022 13:29

@MargaritaPie

The Girl Guides hasn't changed to mixed sex.

GrinGrinGrin

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/02/2022 13:31

Obviously it has margarita otherwise there wouldn’t be men in it would there?

TW are male

HTH

Monitaurus · 19/02/2022 13:34

Well no, if you believe that boys can change sex or that men can change sex. But as they appear to be allowing anyone to join then, yes, it will be mixed sex, which most members do not want.. why do you think some boys and men should be chosen above all others, MP

DomesticatedZombie · 19/02/2022 13:53

@MargaritaPie

The Girl Guides hasn't changed to mixed sex.
Do you understand that 'sex' and 'gender' are not the same thing, Margarita?
Helleofabore · 19/02/2022 14:01

Do you understand that 'sex' and 'gender' are not the same thing

I think that there is a deliberate conflating of the terms here. Of course, some posters have been on MN for long enough and seen the discussions enough to understand that people cannot change sex ever. And that 'single sex' is just that. Single sex.

And that pushing this agenda that sex can be changed is actually harmful to trans people.

I am sure that pie will confirm that they are not the self-appointed spokesperson for trans people and should therefore stop this harmful agenda.

Or else, it is just showing up the credibility of posters who do continue to push that sex can be changed.

Justkeeppedaling · 19/02/2022 14:29

@MargaritaPie

The Girl Guides hasn't changed to mixed sex.

Not on paper, but in reality it has. Because GG are conflating sex and gender.

I'm less anti transwomen who have had surgery and who are being medically "treated" joining GG (though still have my reservations).

But GG is happy with self-ID. Meaning anyone who says they are a woman or girl can join, and (I repeat), Leaders are specifically told NOT to call out on a residential risk assessment that someone with a penis, who was happy with his manhood last week but who has recently decided life is better as a woman, can sleep, toilet, shower alongside girls and women. And help very young girls with these activities.

Helleofabore · 27/02/2022 06:27

metro.co.uk/2022/02/26/girl-shot-in-the-head-while-playing-on-trampoline-in-her-garden-16179674/

I am sure that this girl feels that the little plastic pallets are completely harmless as some posters wish to make out.

It really has fuck all to do with whether the weapons shot bullets or pallets. A supposedly mature adult who was in a leadership position with girl guides was irresponsible in posing with any weapon in the positions they were using on social media. Fake, or firing pallets or bullets.

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