This case v worrying because situation meant outrageous behaviour from those who should have totally focussed on victim.
IN GENERAL- Children esp girls told to be kind to everyone. Give chance. Understand some can exhibit unusual behaviour but that's not a reason to judge. In fact it prob needs need a friend more. Be especially understanding of those who might find harder to fit in. Be kind. Be helpful. Be accepting and welcoming. Acceptance without exception.
This is messaged CONSTANTLY to girls. It insists that ignore instincts, whether actually like the person, be constantly kind generous helpful. Feminine role. Self sacrificing, always put yourself last.
This is TOTAL SHIT. Dangerous shit.
Victim dad kicks off when school not doing anything after rape reported.
He was reported widely as being bigoted arsehole for pushing for action. He got threats and character annihilation.
Police called to school around incident. To deal with angry parent -the dad.
SHORTLY AFTER all that.
School decided to propose change all single sex to gender.
Are they trolling? The dad? Making a point?
Or just monumentally thick?
Both?
Meeting to discuss. Bloke for all schools around there said definitely no attacks any our schools.
Dad gets v angry.
Police come he arrested.
And on and on.
A litany of active hostility towards rape victim and her naturally angry parent.
Lies from school.
Victim blaming. Inc court 2nd victim lawyer said well you know they had consensual sex before...
And on and on and on and on.
The widespread attitude to boys sexually assaulting girls in schools, and zero consequences. Is a massive issue.
The fact that so many times in so many situations, having a declared trans ID actively protects the male who commits sex offences (other offences this reaction way less prevalent).
The standard reaction is.
*No way this happened/ happened as reported
*Anyone supporting victim is a transphobe/USA style Christian right/wants all trans people to be executed by the state, or somehow otherwise got rid of
*Including victim. What's their motivation, paranoia, beliefs for making all this up
*Trans status irrelevant, all crime is people problem, female people rape too. MVAWG and similar is sexist and unfair
*Blah blah don't care STFU stop whining
This adds to the already standard societal approach of. She's done something wrong. Innocent till proven guilty! False accusations common. Blah blah.