@OldCrone
Who can say but the best way to get me to do something is to tell me it can't be done.
It's interesting that this comment of Robiin's seems to have resulted in so many comments that this is a very 'male' attitude. My first thought on reading that was 'sounds just like me' (particularly when I was younger). Often in the context of being told that I couldn't do something because 'that's not for girls'.
Are people here really saying that they've never reacted to someone saying 'you can't do that' with an attitude of 'I'll show them'? Or have I misunderstood? I do feel I must have misunderstood some context or something.
Yes you have missed the context.
Briefly-
It came up around the point that if puberty blockers at 12 then hormones, had as intended, meant RMW was totally perceived as a girl/ woman.
Then their life and experiences esp decades ago could well have been very different.
I have posted more than once about RMW history, which does show that they are a determined individual with impressive academic success.
A first from impy is not to be sniffed at, nor deciding to study law down the line (after at least one other job, not straight after uni), qualifying, practicing and becoming a barrister.
That is impressive for sure.
However. The question that, given school latter 70s, early 80s. Imperial college early 80s. First job with railways.
If taken as girl/ woman by all, might have been a different experience back then. That there could well have been setbacks.
I had a chat about it with robin about my experiences 10 years later. I went to a science uni a decade after robin went to impy.
I talked about the constant overt or subtle reaction from everyone, other students, adults. Indicating that my a level choices were not.. suitable.
That at uni on my course in the early 90s not 80s 5 female out of 80.
It was so so different in the 70s/ early 80s. I remember. In society. With women and girls.
RMW indicated they saw no reason their life path would have been different at all, if all perceived as female. School in the 70s. Uni early 80s.
Bit of to and fro essentially no comment at all on the differences for women/girls nearly 40 years ago.
Only that RMW sees no reason things might have turned out differently for them. Due to fact if told no means determined to do it. No reason might be different if seen as girl/ woman.
Which is. Well. Not even COULD have been different back then?
That is a very bold statement and contains obvious implications around women/ girls, education, opportunities, employment, careers in general.
Which for obvious reasons are implications that might cause consternation.