I'm so tired.
What is the stat? One dead woman every three days or so in the UK - murdered by a man. If she's over 75 her death or rape isn't even recorded because, well, who cares?
I used to be sympathetic to trans women, I really was "of course, come in and pee, let me fix that make up for you" - but, increasingly, I look at the piles of dead women compared to the, erm, no dead trans women, and I am losing sympathy.
I am middle aged and only now beginning to understand what "sisterhood" means. Those women who were murdered for being female by an inadequate man were my sisters. And I feel their loss. Which is odd, I didn't know them, but, jesus wept, I have a welling up of noisy, fiery grief at the loss of all these women who were all loved and needed.
We needed them.
One every three fucking days.