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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Julie Bindel in the Mail - the hijacking of women-only centres

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BoreOfWhabylon · 27/11/2021 23:54

www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-10249631/Women-sold-river-charities-terrified-trans-mob-writes-JULIE-BINDEL.html

I must say the DM and MoS are doing a terrific job covering this subject.

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HaroldMeeker · 28/11/2021 11:09

Is there any legal redress possible? The centre has effectively shut females out of their own service, after all, which clearly is contrary to their reason for being.

It is rather revealing that one, single, solitary male can cause an entire organisation to crumble. I thought women's organisations were built of stronger stuff than this. Disappointing and will lead to many people withholding funding (self included, I'm buggered if I'm supporting the mental torture of females by males in what was supposed to be a safe female space).

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 28/11/2021 12:01

What I don’t understand is how women involved with rape crisis services can do this to women who come to them for help.

I’m well aware how unimportant women are in general, how we are expected to meet all other people’s needs before our own, how in every instance men must be prioritised etc.

But women who choose to work in these women’s crisis services? How can they hold those views? It would take a very special kind of cruelty to do it deliberately.

BoreOfWhabylon · 28/11/2021 12:06

@IamSarah it's important that stories like yours are in mainstream media and there's no better place than the Mail for that. It has a huge readership.

The comments below the article are both horrified of what is happening and hugely supportive of you. People get it, they really do.

Thank you for telling yourr story Flowers

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endofthelinefinally · 28/11/2021 12:24

[quote BoreOfWhabylon]@IamSarah it's important that stories like yours are in mainstream media and there's no better place than the Mail for that. It has a huge readership.

The comments below the article are both horrified of what is happening and hugely supportive of you. People get it, they really do.

Thank you for telling yourr story Flowers[/quote]
Yet when anyone attempts to bring this story to the general area of MN, it is swiftly moved to this so called "naughty corner". Why is bringing this issue to the attention of all women such a terrible thing that needs to be hidden quickly?

ChaToilLeam · 28/11/2021 12:28

This story should be shouted from every rooftop. Women like @IamSarah being thrown under the bus, time and time again, to appease trans-identified males. Thank you Sarah, for speaking out. People don’t believe this is happening but they must be confronted with the truth and the real, shocking impact this has on women.

Manderleyagain · 28/11/2021 12:48

Thank you Sarah for taking the brave leap to getting your story to a wide audience. I am grateful to you for doing it because it's the right thing to do.

Julie bindel on twitter
"Been getting loads of messages from women in the Brighton area that have also been refused female-only services in sexual assault centres/DV refuges and told that they are open to anyone that ID's as a woman. I think we might be looking at a legal challenge here, and also
the beginnings of a plan to set up an ACTUAL women-only facility. You know how to contact me. Let's do it!"

MsGoodenough · 28/11/2021 12:52

Flowers I am Sarah. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope you find the support you need.

SammyScrounge · 28/11/2021 20:55

What sort of supervision do these centres have? An enormous amount of money goes into them from tax payers. I think I read that £2 million went to Edinburgh. What records are kept to show how many women use the service compared to trans people? Surely if women don't use the service then it should be closed down. What happens to the 'bigots' who refuse to go through transgender ideology?
Surely someone should be in charge of inspection, someone not a misogynistic trans person. Someone should be accountable for ensuring that female rape victims are properly cared for. I don't suppose there is much hope of anything sensible happening in Scotland but maybe there is still time in England. You have the laws but they are not being applied.

Ides · 28/11/2021 21:05

I don't think people quite understand how just one person, endowed with a penis and testicles, can oppress multiple women, just by that person's presence. People just don't get how powerful having a penis and testicles makes a person, relative to those who only have vaginas and ovaries.

WhenSepEnds · 28/11/2021 21:13

@BoreOfWhabylon

www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-10249631/Women-sold-river-charities-terrified-trans-mob-writes-JULIE-BINDEL.html

I must say the DM and MoS are doing a terrific job covering this subject.

(The more clicks an article gets the more prominently it is displayed)

I still don't understand why they didn't have to join the 'designated group for transgender people'- is that not the whole point of that group!? Would that not also have been a better fit for the trans person to have received support?
WhenSepEnds · 28/11/2021 21:17

@ChaToilLeam

This story should be shouted from every rooftop. Women like *@IamSarah* being thrown under the bus, time and time again, to appease trans-identified males. Thank you Sarah, for speaking out. People don’t believe this is happening but they must be confronted with the truth and the real, shocking impact this has on women.
This is a Disgrace. Biological women and trans women should have the same rights- one should not be forced out of receiving the support they need because of the other. There was a designated group for transgender people so why was this even an issue?
SpringCrocus · 29/11/2021 00:59

I❤️Julie Bindel.

FindTheTruth · 29/11/2021 05:05

LEGAL CHALLENGE

I hope a legal challenge happens soon, unless local authorities and EHRC suddenly announce that women have a right to single-sex services starting immediately

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@bindelj
1/2 Been getting loads of messages from women in the Brighton area that have also been refused female-only services in sexual assault centres/DV refuges and told that they are open to anyone that ID's as a woman. I think we might be looking at a legal challenge here, and also

twitter.com/bindelj/status/1464903942207381509

GoodieMoomin · 29/11/2021 07:40

I can only imagine that women only groups are not permitted because the women would join them, leaving all the men alone in the inclusive mixed sex group. We can't have that because then there's no one to "validate" the members' "womanliness".

As for the staff...from what I've heard of those in Brighton, they are twaw. They believe they are being #kind to the #MostOppressed and we're just evil bigots. It's a religious movement and they are doing the work of gender Jesus, converting or casting out the ignorant masses as required.

Reading The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt helped me better understand these people on an intellectual level. That said I think they're completely wrong and I struggle to comprehend HOW anyone can hold such a radical and nonsensical position and keep a straight face.

Clymene · 29/11/2021 13:19

Sarah tweeted this yesterday. She isn't the only woman who have been unable to access support.

I am so angry about this and would happily support a level challenge

@IamSarah Thanks

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