[quote BloodinGutters]@Kanaloa
Feminism doesn’t need to have a solution to help predators not offend. Appealing to female socialisation to fix males who are violent isn’t going to work on a feminist board.
Feminism would say it’s men’s responsibility to fix violent and predatory men. Feminism would focus on having strong boundaries to protect women and girls, hearing and amplifying women’s voices about our experience at the hands of men, robust safeguards to protect us.
(I’m beginning to think I should just repeat this on every post i make. What should be the obvious on a feminist board doesn’t seem to be to some posters)[/quote]
I wasn’t suggesting feminism should be about using female socialisation to stop men offending.
I was simply stating that childish shouts of ‘no we shouldn’t talk about paedophilia! They’re all bad men, they should be sent to an island where we can beat them up! Yucky yuck I don’t want to talk about it!!!’ Is unhelpful and makes you sound stupid.
I was expressing disappointment that a conversation that could be helpful and interesting (in the case of this thesis which could have opened a discussion on solutions for paedophila could be had) was ruined as the professor decided to express their views as a paedophile apologist.
It may not be a pleasant subject but it’s one that people need to be able to look at and talk about.
And yes, perhaps it is men’s responsibility to fix these issues. Perhaps we should just sit quietly and not make a fuss until they do so.