@MishyJDI
In the time of Jesus, unlike today, men and women were equal but both had very specific sex based roles. As a result, there was far more segregation of the sexes than the western world today. Therefore Jesus, as a man of his time, would have followed the conventions of the day.
There is a lot of evidence that the disciples were actually male and female pairs and that there were 12 pairs. The women went to spread the word to women and the men to men. Men to women would have been disrespectful and absurd. This was whitewashed out of history during the 1st to the 4th century AD when men chose which biblical texts to include and exclude.
So in answer to your question, Jesus would have used the men’s.
And to clarify, when I say women and men, I am using them as intended. Sex based nouns. Those born with a vagina being women. Those born with a penis being men.
It is an incredible shame that society is no longer run along these lines as we women have had enough of being mansplained into believing that women can have penises, to move over, roll over, accept to be treated as sex objects in a porn show and to have our language destroyed a with a smile and to just be kind.
So I’d like to thank you for your question, which has given me the opportunity to clarify what Jesus would have done. HTH.