How many is a lot? That general comment and 80s/ 90s is not the full picture by far.
Music- fgth number one. Thingy said wouldn't play disgusting. And this is all obviously my own experience in the area I grew up. The general response I heard was what a twat and laughing at him.
Also massive bands/ hits (off the top of my head!)-
Communards v powerful smalltown boy video is a fave. Pointed sharing apple at end.
Erasure
Pet shop boys
Right said Fred (I'm not ashamed! I got my first crappy car at 17 and first time out nearly crashed on a side road while trying to get the hang of lighting a fag while driving!)
Marilyn
Steve strange
Etc etc etc etc etc etc
I went to school 6th form and university with out lesbians and gay blokes.
Gay clubs huge scene then. First year uni shared with some friends who went to bug club with male/ female bits. Manchester canal area full of gay bars etc well known as was Brighton for being an area with big gay scene.
Obv not trying to say it was all roses that would be ridiculous.
The characterisation that the mood of the whole country overall was total disgust hate etc is also not right though.
I transfer section 28. Massively contraversial. Those who thought appalling were given airtime, column inches etc.
Iirc a lot of anger and demos etc.