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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Met Police officer becomes Britain's first 'bi-gender' PC

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Mollyollydolly · 05/10/2021 00:47

Read and weep. Two warrant cards, one male, one female.
After this week and what we've learnt about the Met.

You couldn't make it up.

“The first time I walked into a Met building as Abi, I was hyperventilating so much I almost passed out.
I’ve done it a handful of times since and felt so happy that I got to be me at work. Abi is a part of me that exists and I want that part to be recognised and validated."

www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/met-police-officer-becomes-britain-s-first-bigender-pc-a3546881.html

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WouldBeGood · 05/10/2021 09:01

I’ve just seen this. Beggars belief.

Needmoresleep · 05/10/2021 09:01

The links between misogyny and capture?

If an organisation does not value women and recognise their additional vulnerability and need for single sex spaces, it becomes easier to believe TWAW.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 05/10/2021 09:06

It's a shocking story. I've peaked several people with it and Phil/Pippa Bunce, because whatever they think about people who they see as transsexuals, most people see through this "genderfluid" nonsense.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 05/10/2021 09:11

We have just seen an explosion of institutionalised police violence against women come to light and yet they are happy to issue dual warrant cards on an officer's say-so with no checks or balances? I mean, wow! It's a green light to abusers. How can they not see it? Or maybe it should be why. But then it's an easy way to look progressive without having to make any actual changes. Let's hope they're all true trans eh ladies, after all it's hard to flag down a bus between stops.

Upsielazy · 05/10/2021 09:13

[quote nauticant]There are transmen in the Police:

www.womenarehuman.com/autistic-teen-found-guilty-of-hate-crime-for-asking-police-officers-sex-autism-group-condemns-prosecution/[/quote]
That's so sad, ffs this madness has to stop.

Thelnebriati · 05/10/2021 09:21

Women had questions about this at the time, the Met declined to answer.

MidsomerMurmurs · 05/10/2021 09:28

The first time I walked into a Met building as Abi, I was hyperventilating so much I almost passed out. I’ve done it a handful of times since and felt so happy

Well that’s totally normal and reassuring isn’t it? I think there is a three-letter term which covers that feeing of euphoria that certain male people get when dressing according to female stereotypes.

RVN123 · 05/10/2021 09:50

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Artichokeleaves · 05/10/2021 11:46

There is a point too at which it becomes requiring members of the public to be involved as non consenting participants in someone else's internal life. Where is the line in making inappropriate 'use' of others for own purposes while in a public serving role where customers can't just choose to go elsewhere?

What about police officers who may identify as age fluid, or ability fluid? Where are the lines please? And where is my authentic self's right to express that I identify as someone who does not want to have to involve myself in a police officers' personal complications in order to access police help?

RVN123 · 05/10/2021 16:06

Deleted for speaking the truth.
Thanks Mumsnet, how very predictable.
For anyone interested, my post was very similar to this one above:

"Well that’s totally normal and reassuring isn’t it? I think there is a three-letter term which covers that feeing of euphoria that certain male people get when dressing according to female stereotypes."

Except I used an apparently banned word. Doesn't make it any less true.

WouldBeGood · 05/10/2021 16:40

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WouldBeGood · 05/10/2021 16:45

🤷🏻‍♀️

Me too

Artichokeleaves · 05/10/2021 16:48

Yes.

Unfortunately not saying the words and not letting anyone else say the words does not make anything go away.

DisillusionedTech · 05/10/2021 20:58

@Artichokeleaves

Yes.

Unfortunately not saying the words and not letting anyone else say the words does not make anything go away.

Quite, those of us that have worked with a number of transwomen in male environments know exactly what that word is and frankly if I described how encountering it regularly at work makes me feel this post would probably be deleted too
Motorina · 05/10/2021 21:29

[quote nauticant]There are transmen in the Police:

www.womenarehuman.com/autistic-teen-found-guilty-of-hate-crime-for-asking-police-officers-sex-autism-group-condemns-prosecution/[/quote]
The 'hate crime' in question was a teenager shouting "are you a boy or a girl?". Twice.

I'm not saying that's okay. I'm not.

But it's left this officer "reluctant to go on foot patrols alone".

I can't help but think that most coppers get far, far worse shouted at them routinely. As do most nurses. And pretty much anyone who has ever worked in a shop or behind a bar.

And, of course, that's not okay, either.

But I can't help but wonder if this person is cut out for a career in the police, not because of gender identity, but because criminals are occassionally known to indulge in a bit of foul language or name slinging. They might even use the big big D! It's clearly just too much to be endured.

FlyingOink · 05/10/2021 21:39

It was a pcso not a police officer, and said individual appeared to spend the majority of working hours posting woke nonsense online.

I'd be surprised if that pcso did many foot patrols at all, never mind alone. But yeah, being asked "are you a boy or a girl" by an autistic youth isn't exactly hate crime of the century.

Met Police officer becomes Britain's first 'bi-gender' PC
NewlyGranny · 05/10/2021 22:20

It seems convenient that the feeling of being Abi or Callum is routinely in place in time for the gender fluid officer to pick a uniform before each shift starts. What happens if their polarity reverses mid-shift? It must happen!

HeadPain · 06/10/2021 12:58

Oh dear, oh dear

NoraNik · 28/11/2021 21:52

I know this person and found the comments in this thread quite shocking. You got that story from The Sun. Doesn’t that ring alarm bells? It’s inaccurate (they were promoted from constable a long time before 2017), there are specialist roles in any police force that don’t involve uniforms or searching of suspects, and the dual warrant card angle is clearly inaccurate. Fancy jumping on any old red top tosh and taking it as gospel. Shame on you all

Motorina · 28/11/2021 22:08

@NoraNik

I know this person and found the comments in this thread quite shocking. You got that story from The Sun. Doesn’t that ring alarm bells? It’s inaccurate (they were promoted from constable a long time before 2017), there are specialist roles in any police force that don’t involve uniforms or searching of suspects, and the dual warrant card angle is clearly inaccurate. Fancy jumping on any old red top tosh and taking it as gospel. Shame on you all
I share your concerns about the sun.

Here’s a Met policy document talking about a bi-gender officer who holds to warrant cards and has two Met email addresses.

www.met.police.uk/SysSiteAssets/foi-media/metropolitan-police/disclosure_2019/july_2019/information-rights-unit---transgender-policy

I don’t know if that individual is Callum/Abi or not but perhaps you could explain why the idea is “clearly inaccurate” when Met Police documents make it clear it has happened at least once.

Motorina · 28/11/2021 22:09

*two warrant cards. Not to warrant cards. I blame the cat, who is currently head butting my fingers.

RedDogsBeg · 28/11/2021 22:10

The Police Service is not there to validate the identities of those who work for them, their job is the prevention and detection of crims would be nice if they concentrated on that and serving the citizens who give them their consent to Police them and pay for the privilege through their taxes. Maybe we would have less VAWG if they spent more time on doing the job expected of them instead of virtue signalling this kind of nonsense.

NoraNik · 28/11/2021 22:21

You do realise the warrant number is the same on both cards?

Motorina · 28/11/2021 22:27

@NoraNik nope, not a clue. Never seen a warrant card. No idea what one looks like. Why would I?

I do know that, when I was the victim of a sexual assault, I had a single police officer who I kept in contact through the investigation.

It would have been beyond confusing if I'd got emails from 'Fred' one day, and 'Jane' the next. I probably wouldn't have realised they were the same person. So I'd have found myself having to explain to 'Jane' what I'd said to 'Fred'. And vica versa. Which would have meant explaining the same intimate trauma twice. As it turns out, unneccessarily.

If I did know, I'd be worrying about what name/pronounds/email address I was meant to use today. And whether I'd get in trouble if I used the wrong one.

It would have been really stressful, which was the last thing I would have needed when bracing myself to give evidence on oath about what a predatory man had done to me.

RedDogsBeg · 28/11/2021 22:30

@NoraNik

You do realise the warrant number is the same on both cards?
So? The name isn't is it.