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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Radio 5 live - Nicky Campbell gets more than he bargained for

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Imnobody4 · 01/10/2021 21:19

Mara Yamauchi marathon runner interviewed at 1.08 about Sarah Everard and women's safety. Keep listening. Brilliant.
www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001002y

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NiceGerbil · 02/10/2021 23:41

No no it's fine kitti.

Sorry I went off on one! My posts are rather stream of consciousness. Just pleased I realised my mistake and apologised quickly!

AmanitaRubescens · 03/10/2021 00:34

He sounds like Alan Partridge.

TanteRose · 03/10/2021 01:06

Go Mara!
Calm, measured, to the point - what a star Star

AnyOldPrion · 03/10/2021 05:25

@ScribblingPixie

I don't think he wanted to close her down, he just didn't see the discussion of single sex spaces coming and jabbered the BBC nonsense. He gave her a lot of space to talk and absolutely handed her the opportunity to say that it only takes one predator to end a woman's life when safeguarding doesn't happen.
This was my feeling too. He was making “the right noises” but ineffectively and he gave her loads of time to speak. He didn’t ridicule her or say anything sharp or incisive, didn’t cut across her or tell her she was a bigot or that others would call her transphobic.

Maybe he’s desperately wobbling on the top of the fence, maybe he’s still full on TWAW, but I couldn’t definitively discern his personal position from what he said. He certainly wasn’t making it with his usual brash confidence.

But how wonderful that she spoke up. She was magnificently clear, she linked the two issues together in a way that I haven’t seen done outside of Mumsnet or GC Twitter. Even if not all women are on board, as Campbell said, so what? If some women feel unsafe, and there comments demonstrate they have sound reasons for feeling that way, then we need to listen to them. That’s the message.

And in fact, if you look at this from another angle, she was brought on to discuss women’s safety, perhaps including the angle that men are not listening, so when she raised this, Campbell had no choice but to listen. He was almost hidebound NOT to challenge her too hard. I don’t think she could have done a better job.

HarebrightCedarmoon · 03/10/2021 05:34

I used to find Campbell arrogant but I don't now, and it sounds like he gave her plenty of opportunity to state her views. I guess he just wasn't expecting things to go down that line. Single sex spaces wouldn't have helped Sara Everard, and the heat should really be focused on the police at the moment. The erosion of women's rights is part of a wider debate, but in a week where we have been told to resist arrest because the police can't be trusted, that needs to be the focus. Let's not let the laser beam of media attention leave them.

PamDenick · 03/10/2021 05:47

Yes, the spotlight must be on The Police but the connection between women’s safety and the erosion of rights must also be discussed.

Scoutingformygirls · 03/10/2021 07:23

These are 2 elements of the conversation and she did brilliantly to link them.

We are talking about VAWG.To do that everyone seems to be very able to know who we are talking about. Sarah Everard's killer went out looking for a very particular kind of victim and he was able to discern who that was. How is it that when we discuss VAWG we all know what a woman or girl is without convoluted explanations and a need to be re-educated, but suddenly when we talk about protecting those people and what they need to feel safe we can't.

groundcontroltomontydon · 03/10/2021 07:37

The unthinking removal of single sex spaces, the casual erosion of women's few rights and VAWG all have at their core contempt for women.

Cailin66 · 03/10/2021 07:48

VAWG?

HummingBeeBox · 03/10/2021 08:01

Violence against women and girls

BoredZelda · 03/10/2021 09:24

Sounded like a decent debate to me, both sides held their own and made decent points. I had to listen to it twice to try and find the click-baity Nicky getting more than he bargained for and still none the wiser. I’m no fan of that particular show but can’t see what the fuss is over this interview.

BettyFilous · 03/10/2021 09:34

Zelda - I think it is the fact that Mara was ‘allowed’ to speak so freely and join the dots which is causing surprise. Women’s argument for single sex spaces is usually shut down immediately. I played this interview for my husband last night and he said he can’t get over how jarring the cognitive dissonance is. The media are all over VAWG and asking what we can do but seem unable to see the direct relationship with upholding safeguarding measures and allowing women to say what would help.

Scoutingformygirls · 03/10/2021 10:36

Zelda, can you not hear the change in his voice and tone? And him stating 'it's toxic' to someone who has spoken calmly, considerately, politely and said nothing remotely toxic?

I felt he sounded really anxious towards the end in a way he just didn't at the beginning when he was very confidently asserting how dreadful white van man behaviour is.

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