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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Pronoun declarers: is "bodies with vaginas" OK, too far, just right?

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EmbarrassingAdmissions · 25/09/2021 10:37

The Lancet has chosen to replace the word for the sex class of women with bodies with vaginas but still refers to men rather than bodies with penises . Do you see this as:

– a much needed progression;
– something you wholeheartedly support in its entirety;
– something that makes you a bit uncomfortable;
– in need to correction so that men are scrotum-havers or bodies with penises;
– something you facilitated but didn't intend;
– an unrelated issue to your choice to use pronouns in your email sigs etc.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4357954-The-lancet-on-periods-bodies-with-vaginas

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/09/2021 14:02

And will men henceforth be know as bodies with penises?

Men and most MTF trans people. It's the inclusive way.

DryHeave · 25/09/2021 14:07

“Transwomen are women” but women are “bodies with vaginas”? (Stolen from Twitter - couldn’t phrase it better myself!)

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 25/09/2021 14:07

@Ereshkigalangcleg

And will men henceforth be know as bodies with penises?

Men and most MTF trans people. It's the inclusive way.

I don't know how any of this can not end up with a struggle for primacy between the younger enbys and the older generation who rely upon sexes from which they transition (for whatever reason).

tbh, I only know of 2 families with an NB child of AMAB origin, the overwhelming majority are AFAB children who have gone on to be recognised with autism (for those who've had an assessment, others are on a waiting list).

But how does this language include people who reject binaries (whichever version) and may or may not have had interventions that remove both obvious primary and secondary sex characteristics?

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MadameKali · 25/09/2021 15:03

@purplejungle

I know this board is meant to be an echo chamber where we all leave you to your views... but since you asked explicitly, no it doesn't bother me in the slightest. There are so many more issues that are worth actually worrying about.
@purplejungle that's fine, you and whoever wants to can all yourselves whatever the penis people tell you is acceptable. But you, and they, don't get to make that demand of me, my daughter, my nieces, my friends or any other fucking woman who finds it abhorrent.
4BlueTowers · 25/09/2021 15:06

@MarshmallowSwede

A few other terms we can use for men:

Salami slapper
Wanker
Sperm producer
Prostate haver

and as someone on another thread said;

'Dicks with dicks. '

gotalottolose · 25/09/2021 15:06

This is far too humanising for me. I prefer to be called ‘a front hole with tits’ cheers.

DaisiesandButtercups · 25/09/2021 20:43

Cunts and cocks will be easier and quicker and take less ink when we get to that point.

Then hopefully we can simply have separate spaces for cunts and cocks for the privacy and dignity of both and the safety of the cunts.

Perhaps we will all be walking around naked from the waist down in this brave new world.

Don’t the gender ideologues ever think about the end point of their linguistic contortions? They are surely set to destroy the thing they want. I suppose that is the way with the unattainable, you never can reach the end of the rainbow after all. However much you chase it remains beyond your grasp then disappears entirely.

And yeah bodies, I am thinking dead or enslaved. Objectified. An object. This is so tied to porn culture. We are pieces of meat with a hole in or something? A sex toy or an incubator? Surely this is the epitome of dehumanising.

miri1985 · 25/09/2021 23:19

Can you identify into being a body with a vagina? Can you identify out of being a body with a vagina? We've been told for ages that identity trumps biology so why not say women

I keep thinking about that incorrect piece of trivia that people used to say that Inuits had 100 words for snow. Are we getting to the place where we'll have a 100 words for women for people who are too scared to say the word women?

PrincessNutella · 26/09/2021 02:17

Bodies with vaginas? Are they talking about mares? Fillies? Geese? Hens? What kind of bodies with vaginas?

KittenKong · 26/09/2021 09:47

It’s in the telegraph today. I mentioned it to my sister yesterday (we haven’t discussed the topic - she is very west coasty, 3 wokey 20/30 something daughters) - she brought up the whole Scotland schools gender switchwroo (and not telling parents). She is particularly angry because she is primary school teacher (of 40 years) and one of her girls would have been Fred these days. My god she is furious. Then I mentioned condoms in womans jails near her (she hasn’t heard that!)

KittenKong · 27/09/2021 20:34

Anyone seen their sorry not sorry (you dumb little bodies with vaginas, shut up because...)?

Gncq · 27/09/2021 21:34

Have they even published a sorry not sorry? That's start....

KittenKong · 27/09/2021 21:37

I’ll have a dig. Definitely a “sorry if you silly airheads were offended BUT the most marginalised (TM), intersex, etc...”

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