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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How can people think this is OK? I just don't get it!

36 replies

manatsu · 17/09/2021 09:22

Man with a history of violence against women sadistically beats, rapes and murders a complete stranger. Once he's convicted, he suddenly realises he's trans. He gets put in a women's holding prison. Everyone pretends he's a woman just like the woman he murdered was and makes it their mission to defend him and get him to serve his sentence in a woman's prison.

No I won't refer to him with female pronouns. I'm incandescent with rage. I cannot believe how misogynistic this world is. Why????

<a class="break-all" href="https://archive.md/2021.09.16-144358/www.thestar.com/news/gta/2021/09/16/a-nightmare-toronto-murder-ended-with-a-guilty-verdict-what-comes-next-highlights-one-of-the-most-difficult-questions-facing-canadas-prisons.html#selection-1417.233-1417.395" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">archive.md/2021.09.16-144358/www.thestar.com/news/gta/2021/09/16/a-nightmare-toronto-murder-ended-with-a-guilty-verdict-what-comes-next-highlights-one-of-the-most-difficult-questions-facing-canadas-prisons.html#selection-1417.233-1417.395

OP posts:
manatsu · 17/09/2021 09:24

4w.pub/violent-woman-killer-to-be-transferred-to-womens-prison/ More here.

OP posts:
manatsu · 17/09/2021 09:26

Original reporting (he was a man a few weeks ago) www.thestar.com/news/gta/2021/08/21/pair-found-guilty-of-first-degree-murder-and-sexual-assault-of-east-york-mother-of-three-in-her-home.html

OP posts:
ArabellaScott · 17/09/2021 09:29

Brainwashing, OP. That's how.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 17/09/2021 09:32

It seems that there is nothing that can be done in relation to a country like Canada. We just have to stand by and watch until the numbers of women and children harmed by all this escalates to a level where people start to take notice.

Bimblybomeyelash · 17/09/2021 09:33

It’s madness.

QueenPeary · 17/09/2021 09:47

Because people are terrified of being bigots, and the TRA movement has used that to make them feel like a TW should be treated as a woman in every possible way, and a TW is any male who says he is, and not agreeing with this makes you a bigot along the lines of the worst imaginable racists or homophobes – et voila.

It does make no sense, and things will change - I'm certain of that. Because it will go very, very tits up. It's just awful and tragic having to watch this happen so slowly and wait for the penny to drop while women are being harmed and intimidated.

FightingtheFoo · 17/09/2021 11:13

It's incomprehensible. I'm finally reading Helen Joyce's book and it's very helpful in explaining how all this has happened.

Your anger is good though. Use it to fuel the pushback.

OvaHere · 17/09/2021 11:23

It's mass insanity. I can't comprehend that there are people who think this is reasonable.

CreepingDeath · 17/09/2021 11:31

It's like some dystopian nightmare. Men will always get priority, even when they have shown their hatred and contempt for women.

The sad fact is that men don't care about this, because they don't have to care. They will never be the victims of this, so they can sleep easy. It is left for women to push back against this, and of course we are not listened to, because we are just a bunch of nagging feminists.

I can't believe that this is where we are. So many people just don't care, just turn away.

ArabellaScott · 17/09/2021 11:35

RIP Rhoderie Estrada. Love to your children. Flowers

Artichokeleaves · 17/09/2021 11:50

Misogyny and male supremacism running rampant.

The feelings and choices of a male takes precedence over the feelings, choices and actual human rights/physical safety of females.

This is the message we have to share far and wide to the female electorate. Do you want a government that believes you are second class subordinate humans? And will treat you accordingly?

While releasing bullshit at the same time about vague concerns around VAWG apparently demonstrating the right hand has no idea the left hand even exists, and less joined up thinking than the average local corner shop can manage.

catzwhiskas · 17/09/2021 12:26

Very few people think this is Ok. But it is the result of well funded TRA groups capturing governments, organisations and charities to pretend there will be no problems. And of course rampant misogyny that is not listening to women. The argument about surgery or not is irrelevant . Men can still be dangerous to women whatever their identity or if they have undergone feminisation surgery. Isn’t the election in Canada this week?

EsmaCannonball · 17/09/2021 12:43

I saw this case on Twitter earlier and I'd like to say I can't believe it but these are daily events now. The thing about totalitarianism is that its adherents can see the injustices and cruelties enacted in its name but they think its ultimate goal is worth it. Nobody is fooled by this man but there are people who will overlook the unfairness and danger here because getting everyone to chant 'Trans Women Are Women!' is more important to them. It's a men's rights movement.

We're also asked to believe that men's prisons are utter hell for transwomen. I reckon it was hell for many old school transsexuals, but the authorities need to ask themselves why so many men declare they are women only once in the system. The benefits obviously outweigh any risks.

Franca123 · 17/09/2021 12:47

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.

Artichokeleaves · 17/09/2021 12:49

It may well be hell for TW in mens prisons.

But that can be addressed, perfectly, properly, in a way that totally solves the problem, without making female prisons hell for female prisoners.

Why is that not an acceptable solution?

Because it isn't about safety. It's about the right of access to female humans as a resource that male humans have entitlement to. Female consent and female collateral damage is not considered worth considering.

Male supremacism. You cannot call this anything else.

LifesNotDoneYet · 17/09/2021 12:52

That poor, poor woman. What despicable creatures both of the perpetrators are.

Love to Rhoderia's children and husband. I cannot imagine what they've been through Flowers

And no OP, you're not unreasonable at all to be outraged at this. They are clearly calculating and lacking morality and remorse - just look at how carefully crafted their attempts at a legal defence were. When that didn't quite work they have declared themselves trans to access a woman's prison. Utterly sickening.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 17/09/2021 13:35

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
Absolutely

And on so many of these threads you get people basically saying that it serves the female right for committing a crime and being sent to prison….honestly shocking

annacondom · 17/09/2021 13:45

That second link... It's shocking that these people seem to have absolutely no common.sense or understanding. These violent and experienced criminals are easily pulling the wool over their eyes.

QueenPeary · 17/09/2021 15:11

Statistics alone should be making it clear to people there's something totally dodgy going on. Hugely elevated rates of suddenly realising you're trans among male sex offenders and violent offenders hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm come on it can't be that hard to see!

The obvious answer is trans prisons or totally unconnected trans wings and there is no reason why that can't happen. They should build them and make sure all trans-identifying prisoners go to them (or have the option to stay with their own sex). Then track the stats again and see if the same trend continues.

Eyesofdisarray · 17/09/2021 15:27

Oh that poor woman: RIP.
Despicable men- they must be laughing at the justice system and people tying themselves in knots trying to sort this. Appalling.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 17/09/2021 15:34

Do they not realise they are now going to have to build more women’s prisons to allow for the sudden increase in inmates? I know they don’t give a fuck about our safety, maybe the financial implications might cause them to rethink this?

ZaraCarmichaelshighheels · 17/09/2021 15:47

Does no one, members of government, the media, women’s groups the general public in Canada ever challenge the situation there? I hear situations like this a lot in Canada but never hear of any pushback or protests?

Congressdingo · 17/09/2021 16:46

@ZaraCarmichaelshighheels

Does no one, members of government, the media, women’s groups the general public in Canada ever challenge the situation there? I hear situations like this a lot in Canada but never hear of any pushback or protests?
Yes of course there are womens campaign groups but they are just as silenced as those in the UK, possibly even more silenced. I dont think anyone wants to believe it but honestly Women dont matter. Its that simple.
MondayYogurt · 17/09/2021 17:06

I expect he would be viewed as a man if he did the same thing to Sophie Trudeau, or any of Canada's wealthy elites.

MondayYogurt · 17/09/2021 17:08

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
Moreover I suspect an underlying current of vindictive "well they deserve what they get".