- political culture needs to change. Devolved power, flatter structures, proportional representation, maybe more coalitions, steps taken to make it safer to be involved in politics, and in a wider sense we need to look after and nurture the mother/child/family unit far more than we do now (that doesn't just mean paying for minimum-wage childcare) so that mothers/families can actually be involved in civic/public/political life.
The harsh uncrossable line between 'domestic' and 'public' life isn't really healthy. I suppose it also exacerbates limiting stereotypes (inc gender roles).
How do we get society to value the contribution of women, mothers and all carers? Feminism seems to have got stuck on a 'make it so that women can act like men' model of economic productivity latterly - we should be dismantling that, we should be making the model fit women's lives. (This would, coincidentally, probably benefit men).
I suppose neo liberal capitalism is always going to muscle in and appropriate a movement in the way that benefits itself the most. Turning everyone's life into a profit-and-loss sheet, calculating how to maximise profit above all else. Hyper individualism by its nature excludes family structures, all the delicate networks of friendship and community. Pick-and-mix your identity because it has no actual connection to what used to be a place in an interwoven and intermingled society, this is what idpol is all about, isn't it? Take the signifiers & symbols and use them in place of the things they used to have meaningful connection with. 'Woman' becomes a commodity consisting of lips, tits, hips, instead of a human being with the embodied experience of living as a female in relation to other people.
And our identities get divorced from context. So we squabble about a term like 'white feminist' that has apparently become removed from meaning (if 'white' can be used to mean 'black' then it is meaningless) or the structure of a community/society, and we squabble about the words, and get into stupid, juvenile academic Twitter spats, instead of actually doing the work of supporting each other, helping out, wiping arses, making dinner, cracking jokes, making up, teaching, etc.