but also by neoliberals in France and elsewhere who need the normative family to absorb the decimation of social welfare
Just coming back to this ...
This is a really weird statement. I know that LB's feminism rests on the back of Anglophone interpretations of some elements of French feminism, but why privilege France?
And surely GC feminists are critiquing the nuclear family in terms of gender roles? This is what being GC is all about.
I agree that neoliberals or the new right want to entrench the traditional family to responsibility them to provide for family members, thus abrogating the welfare state of this responsibility, but there is no correlation between GC feminism and neoliberalism at all.
NeoLIBERALISM is a form of LIBERALISM and is allied with our LF friends and their choice-based, individualised way of seeing the world. Choose a gender, choose a job, choose to be rich, choose to be poor, choose sex work, choose porn - this is liberal/neoliberal, not GC!