Link to the guide:
drive.google.com/file/d/1Rt1_uhcigTYf_QrvS3IyK8dVAvBENbct/view
Here's one gem: other sex guides are useless because...
'...these usually aren’t written by
trans and non-binary people – lots of them mention men
having certain bodies and women having other bodies, and
very little about non-binary people.
'Your body is yours, no matter what your gender is. So are
your genitals, and it’s OK to use them for pleasure,
procreation or both as long as you want to. Two trans guys
having sex are having gay sex if they say they are, and a trans
woman and a cisgender man are having heterosexual sex if
that’s how they define it.
'How you identify doesn’t determine how you have sex, or
what you have to call it. You can call your genitals whatever
makes you comfortable, and you can have sex in any ways
that make you happy too.'
IOW: the term 'gender' has no content. None.