@Ereshkigalangcleg
You were the perfect person to ask-
because, gently and respectfully, you answers tend toward disowning responsibility.
And gently and respectfully, as long as you are not personally oppressing people of other races, it's ok for racial politics not to be your main focus. It's ok to think feminism is solely about women's rights and that modern theories such as queer theory and intersectionality aren't actually the last word on it.
I've said on many threads, the kind of people who boast about how "intersectional" are are often the kind of people who deny the importance, and sometimes the existence, of biological sex. If there are intersecting axes of oppression being born female is probably the largest oppressed group. The original concept was about being female and having that oppression compounded by other forms of oppression, eg black women falling through the cracks of affirmative action programmes benefiting white women and black men. It's been traduced. By holding males up as having an equal right to speak for and instead of females, even when what they say isn't in our best interest, it's lost its way.
Ok, but what if you ARE oppressing?
What if as a white woman, your consumption of goods and services requires suffering? There is an online calculator that takes an audit of your spending and ownership, and tells you how many slaves are in your consumption line.
My number was 147.
You can find it via google.
What if you are oppressing people of colour by failing to teach your children anti racism, so that they go on the oppress? Layla Saad writes brilliantly about the goal of becoming a good ancestor.
What if as a white women, you consume media that centres representation of white people and not black people and culture, this contributing to a media culture that represents humanity as white, causing black people to feel dehumanised?
What if as a white person you do not hold your government and corporations and education establishments responsible when they deny structural racism, refuse to teach black history, when black women are 5 times more likely to die in child birth?
Your question presupposes that you are not complicit, and I would say if you think you are not complicit, you are not looking hard enough.
Lastly- outcomes for non-white people, men and women, in pay, in life expectancy are all worse than for white women. If you hold feminism up as the fight for women, and you do not disaggregate data within women by race, and consider men of colour, you are upholding white supremacy. And white supremacy and patriarchy are the left and right hand of our system. If you fight one without fighting the other you will lose.