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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

NSPCC and SSAUK

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2fallsagain · 19/04/2021 22:18

SSAUK continues to call out safeguarding failures at NSPCC. This is a shocking thread, look at some of these so called teaching resources.

The senior management team of NSPCC clock up a wage bill of at lease £1million per year and they are failing to safeguard children.

twitter.com/SafeSchools_UK/status/1384234109019463690?s=20

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RabbitOfCaerbannog · 19/04/2021 22:22

It is truly shocking to see them write off Childline's association with inappropriate content because it was made a few years ago. It remains on YouTube with their endorsement and has had 3 million+ views. As your thread shows other organisations are using it because they believe it to be endorsed by Childline. Children as young as 12 (indeed 7 based on the information in your thread) should not be being encouraged to view specialist porn and or be fed unscientific ideologically driven information about gender. I find it extremely depressing that safeguarding gatekeepers can't see how far they're going wrong with this.

2fallsagain · 19/04/2021 22:34

It's really shocking. The more you dig the more you realise how entrenched it all is and how safeguarding has gone out of the window.

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IloveJKRowling · 19/04/2021 22:35

I am so grateful for SSAUK - without them I'd know about a lot less about the dangers facing my children.

And in contrast to the NSPCC with their 1 million in salaries, the good women of SSAUK are doing all their work for free - and doing a lot more to safeguard children despite the mismatch in funding.

persistentwoman · 19/04/2021 22:38

Well done SSAUK. And I agree with Rabbit - for safeguarding charities to be so captured by lobby groups and porn advocates is depressing and frankly frightening.
The levels of denial are unbelievable.

Olderstyle1 · 19/04/2021 22:45

Brilliant thread SSA! Here's to you and your endless determination. Flowers

Helleofabore · 19/04/2021 22:47

Thanks for sharing that update. And it is important to get the petition shared.

That response was such a non-response. If they were at all concerned, they would have asked for the video to be pulled. It doesn’t matter how old the video is. It still carries their endorsement.

Well dodgy!

Sunkisses · 20/04/2021 07:06

I wouldn't be surprised if that hideous video is quietly pulled or the endorsement from Childline is quietly removed. Then they'll pretend it never happened... That Childline search, where their Ask Sam feature says it's "perfectly normal" to be watching porn at age 7. Our poor kids. These supposed "children's charities" all sound more sinister by the day.

UppityPuppity · 20/04/2021 07:16

That Childline search, where their Ask Sam feature says it's "perfectly normal" to be watching porn at age 7. Our poor kids.

Just googled this - BLOODY HELL. How is this possible!!????

Has anyone complained - know how to complain? Also - does anyone know if Ester Ranzen knows about this? I can’t imagine she is supportive. I am old enough to remember when CL was set up and it was NOT for this. I imagine this will encapture the very vulnerable children CL was set up to supposedly help. Imagine those children with ‘questionable’ adults used as an euphemism for another word which will get me a strike referencing this - hey it’s all ok...

MoltenLasagne · 20/04/2021 07:35

The understanding of safeguarding at the NSPCC has been questionable for a while.

Here is a thread from 2019 about their definition of child abuse in their 'Stay Safe, Speak Out' program suggesting that it is only abuse if a child is "frightened or worried."

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3611569-Is-NSPCC-school-guidance-for-kids-re-sexual-abuse-shifting-the-Overton-Window-Need-expert-advise-to-break-this-down#prettyPhoto

The program has clearly recently been refreshed as it talks about changes in schools from Covid but they are still using this terminology that a lot of us reported two years ago.

Jellycatspyjamas · 20/04/2021 07:55

Also - does anyone know if Ester Ranzen knows about this? I can’t imagine she is supportive.

Ester Rantzen has been little more than a figurehead at Childline for a very long time, she doesn’t now have the clout to challenge this stuff successfully. The NSPCC have had full control over Childline communications for around 14 years now so anything published under the Childline brand site with them - they really can’t pretend it’s not their responsibility.

Clymene · 20/04/2021 09:38

@UppityPuppity

That Childline search, where their Ask Sam feature says it's "perfectly normal" to be watching porn at age 7. Our poor kids.

Just googled this - BLOODY HELL. How is this possible!!????

Has anyone complained - know how to complain? Also - does anyone know if Ester Ranzen knows about this? I can’t imagine she is supportive. I am old enough to remember when CL was set up and it was NOT for this. I imagine this will encapture the very vulnerable children CL was set up to supposedly help. Imagine those children with ‘questionable’ adults used as an euphemism for another word which will get me a strike referencing this - hey it’s all ok...

I really think they don't need 20 different letters about underage children thinking they have a porn addiction.
manatsu · 20/04/2021 09:44

That Childline search, where their Ask Sam feature says it's "perfectly normal" to be watching porn at age 7. Our poor kids.

There aren't even words.
ShockAngrySad

UppityPuppity · 20/04/2021 10:17

I really think they don't need 20 different letters about underage children thinking they have a porn addiction.

Indeed. It’s just all so horrendous...

Thingybob · 20/04/2021 11:34

I'm so pleased that SSAUK are looking at Childline as I've spent the last hour horrified at the bollocks on that site. Kids are being groomed by each other as well as by the anything goes, queerness of Childline materials.

Their busiest message boards are the ones on sexuality and gender which are full of kids as young as 9 or 10 coming out as gender queer, asexual, pansexual, omnisexual, biroromantic, demisexual, polysexual etc etc. I can't find any kids that identify as plain old lesbian or gay

ZIGGY7 · 20/04/2021 11:50

I am so grateful to SSAUK for applying actual safeguarding. The NSPCC and Childline are captured. The NSPCC horrendous definition of abuse should have been enough for the charities commission to have shut them down.

persistentwoman · 20/04/2021 12:06

Those message boards Sad. Children asking how to bind and being given crap advice and no warnings about long term impacts.

This social trend throws up a real conundrum for adults. Of course it's great that children are growing up more open about different sexualities with less homophobia. But amidst all the rainbow flag waving, adults seem to forget that these are children, many primary children and the majority too young to have sex lives.

There's a massive naivety about all this. 11 year olds should not be discussing sexuality with 16 years olds in LGBT groups in schools or binding breasts. 11 year olds should not be "coming out" as anything frankly. There's a massive element of social contagion going on here with adults standing back handwringing, not wishing to appear homophobic while their children are accessing some of the most unsuitable, unhinged and frankly dangerous adults in the world for "advice".
Where's the safeguarding? Where are the boundaries between adult behaviours and what's appropriate for children? Deciding and experimenting with your sexuality is a process. While I'm sure that much of this is harmless posturing there are so many very young naive children involved and with so many schools and parents failing to establish safeguarding dominated boundaries, these children are open to huge danger.

The fact that the NSPCC and Childline are oblivious to / uncaring about all this is terrifying in terms of child safety.

Beamur · 20/04/2021 12:09

Worth a reminder that NSPCC are unique amongst charities in having statutory powers.

RabbitOfCaerbannog · 20/04/2021 12:09

What sort of vetting is Childline doing to make sure the young people on those boards are who they say they are? It looks very easy to sign up.

Datun · 20/04/2021 12:31

Safe Schools UK is the new incarnation of a proper child protection agency.

There is no way the NSPCC can effectively implement safeguarding advice with their current stance.

They appear to be complicit in the sexualisation of ever younger children, because they have boxed themselves into a position where they have to accept a premise that undermines safeguarding.

They should be spearheading campaigns to blow the entire porn industry wide open. And investigating gender identity politics and how it effects children. Not colluding in it.

SunsetBeetch · 20/04/2021 12:50

This is so horrifying. Thanks so much to SSAUK for all your work.

Clymene · 20/04/2021 13:51

@RabbitOfCaerbannog

What sort of vetting is Childline doing to make sure the young people on those boards are who they say they are? It looks very easy to sign up.
I've just signed up as an 11 year old and have posted on the message board. They do moderate before your post goes live but no vetting.
RabbitOfCaerbannog · 20/04/2021 14:31

I've just signed up as an 11 year old and have posted on the message board. They do moderate before your post goes live but no vetting.

Well that's great isn't it. Well done for exposing a gaping safeguarding hole there Clymene. So posters giving children guidance about their trans identities and sexuality could be any old Tom, Dick or Harry?

BoreOfWhabylon · 20/04/2021 14:48

This needs wider exposure.

Perhaps OP could also post in AIBU or Chat?

MoltenLasagne · 20/04/2021 15:18

I've just signed up as an 11 year old and have posted on the message board. They do moderate before your post goes live but no vetting.

That is so incredibly concerning that there are no restrictions but also the complete lack of awareness of it not being appropriate for 11 year olds to chat with strangers online. It is similar to how certain activists were encouraging children to DM them on Twitter and couldn't see what was wrong with it.

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