I have long argued the same point here.
Show us, through high level good quality repeatable research that segregation of sport by sex since the dawn of time has been a fundamentally flawed idea.
Show us, using large cohorts of women and girls across a breadth of sport, that if they can train just as hard as the men and boys and “try harder” that the gap can close and the progression of records in women’s sport will see a dramatic improvement from such revolutionary training techniques never before thought of.
Show us, with high quality research but not actually compromising the safety of women and girls, that there is no risk to women and girls in contact sport.
Show us independent evidence of how males cannot access their sport in the male category because of exclusion. Lack of validation of feelings does not count.
Go and come up with a clear objective argument as to what it is that qualifies males to compete in women and girls’ sport that doesn’t include feelings or validation.
Go and interview all the hundreds of women and girls who have been impacted by just a handful of males in their sports and demonstrate that not a single one was bothered and they did indeed just “get over it”.
Go and do all that, then come back and we might be able to start a discussion.
Until then, just fuck off and leave women and girls’ sport alone.