Hello, this is a matter from quite a while back in the thread, but when I read it, I think it may have made my hair stand on end.
bigotryisbad
do, as it happens, think there are areas where the advance of rights for trans people is justified. I haven't even begun to form the ideas into a postbecause I'm not atotalidiot and I can see what a hostile environment looks like. The first "new" (actually, most of my ideas as minor reforms) right that someone proposed in here would have to be bomb proof, battle tested and would still probably be flame war-ed into deletion.
Firstly, some common ground. I don't enjoy areas of the internet that are hostile, by which I mean places that do not abide by the level of civil (but snarky) debate that my first online debating society kept. If the order of the day is intimidating people out of discussion with rape threats and the like, then I'm out. Which is why I am on mumsnet these days.
However, if I have proposals for some form of social reform, my first port of call would be (and has been!) quarters of the internet where people of a different view on the topic gather. 100%.
Developing and refining proposals for social change is like performing an experiment using the scientific method. You try to disprove your pet hypothesis.
You find your ideological opponents and you ask them to identify the flaws in the proposal. If you can't find an opponent, you get a friend to play devil's advocate. Then you go back to the drawing board and think about how to eliminate the flaws identified.
The purpose of a post should be to initiate discussion in order to refine and improve your concept. Sometimes not much survives the first trial, but that's all to the good, because there is no point wasting ink and your best calligraphy pen making copies of a fundamentally flawed proposal.
The way you've phrased it makes it sound as if, at the root of it, you think the purpose of initiating a discussion about your ideas would be to rake in the like notifications!