The American Senator Tom Cotton got a hard time last summer when he said 'Call in the Troops' to restore order during the riots, which were widespread, terrorised civilians, damaged property and government buildings and cost lives. A NYT editor lost his job as a result of Cotton's article. What has happened now is appalling, and order has to be restored. So why was Cotton wrong? You can't have double standards in a democracy. (Though in practice, of course, these always exist. Democracy is never perfect and needs constant vigilance.)
As for this comment from the Women’s Hour thread:
They're (WH) discussing the events in Washington yesterday and have on someone from the University of Sussex, Melissa Milewski (Lecturer in American History), whose line is: "We have to look at the responsibility white women have for this."
It's troubling, especially coming from an American, economically privileged white woman who rarely has to deal with actual working class people in her working life. Sussex is, IIRC, not particularly great on widening participation.
But taking a step back (outrage rarely gets you anywhere), what this is, is an attempt to discipline white women into policing their own political behaviour. The accusation is tenuous (how exactly are white women responsible for a largely male crowd storming the capitol to support a male president? And does she mean all white women or specifically white American women?) and unoriginal. It is designed to make the majority of women constantly interrogate their own thoughts and actions. Conversely, if you have the right thoughts, you can stop thinking.
Historically, the majority of women vote in line with the prevailing social consensus. In the first half of the twentieth century, this meant voting for the Right, since about the 1970s it means voting for the Left. Is the sudden and unwarranted concern with white women's political behaviour a sign of anxiety that women could be mobilised to challenge the status quo? What sort of world would this be? Perish the thought, Dr Milewski ...