I'm conflicted about this....the force is strong me not to speak ill of the recently dead
.
However, if it's left unsaid, there will be no point in bringing it up in 3 or 6 months time.
His remarks were awful. Even for the time.
My father is of a similar vintage- he might not be a raving feminist, but he would have no truck with hitting a woman.
When Dad gets annoyed with Mum, he's off for a long walk, and comes back to ignore the issue get on with things.
No reason for Connery not to do the same.