Well I sent this, for what it’s worth:
Good morning
It’s absolutely necessary to have single sex toilet (and changing) facilities for women, not accessible to any male bodied person, in order to protect the privacy and safety of women and girls.
From my own experience:
In my teenage years my periods were unpredictable and heavy. It was embarrassing enough dealing with sanitary protection, washing bloody hands and occasionally underwear even in the company of women. I would have been mortified to have a male person in the facility with me.
As the mother of newborns I had to deal with issues of post birth bleeding and breastfeeding, both of which made me reliant on public toilets. Without private female only spaces available, I doubt I’d have left the house.
As the mother of small children, one in a pushchair, I often had to use public toilets with the door wedged open so as to properly look after the children. This would have been very difficult if the toilets were accessible to males, and if one came in. On the other hand, I would have been confident to ask a natal female to assist me (and did so on more than one occasion).
After surgery for early stage cervical cancer, I bled incessantly for two months and was in pain and distress. I often felt dizzy and faint and toilets were a refuge for me. My discomfort would have been worsened if I didn’t have the assurance of private spaces and potentially help from other natal females, whom I felt I could trust.
Finally, menopause brought unpredictable, very heavy periods with blood clots and gushing. I could soak through a super plus tampon and a heavy duty towel in less than an hour, frequently bloodying clothes and hands. A change of clothing was often necessary. How difficult and demeaning it would have been to have to deal with this with males in the toilets.
I have only focused on toilets in this email but much of what I have said applies to changing facilities (eg in gyms) as well.
Just about every other woman I know, who has given this any thought, agrees with me.
Sincerely