I think trans women at any point of surgery should be able to use our toilets.
Hi abi
At what point of surgery do you think they should be allowed in? There are many surgeries available to men transitioning like hair removal, facial feminisation surgery, hair replacement (head), vaginoplasty with or without penis, breast implants, oophorectomy (spelling?) etc.
How do we tell who has had which treatment- especially at early stages of say, hair removal? Vaginoplasty is not immediately obvious.
What about hormone treatment without surgery?
What about people who identify as women but have no dysphoria and no intention of changing their bodies (not even shaving their beard like Alex Drummond)?
Where do we draw the line?
Wherever that line is drawn, say vaginoplasty (no penis) and facial feminisation surgery - how do we justify excluding the other people claiming to be part of the same group but haven’t got around to having surgery yet?
I have yet to see any evidence that transwomen are in any more danger in the men’s toilets than other vulnerable male groups like teenagers (experiencing unbelievably high rates of violence) and small camp men? I have asked interested parties for that evidence but they only produced that survey that you linked to earlier and tbh that was 6 yrs ago and in the US.
Life is different in many ways in the UK (our men have traditionally loved a bit of recreational cross dressing - a large chunk of comedy in my childhood was based on men dressed as women and the students were always off on tarts and vicars night etc - men dressing up in stockings and suspenders- look at the dressing up for the Rocky Horrir show).
So British men have been used to female presenting (and females who can’t be bothered to wait) people using the men’s toilets.
Approx 200 murders of women happen every year, I think rapes are in the hundreds of thousands, yet there have been no murders of trans people in this country since 2018 (one transwoman murdered by a partner) and no reports of attacks on transwomen that I can see (plenty of reports of attacks by transwomen). Someone told me once that was because of media bias but my research over the last year tells me that this is not the case.
An interesting website for you to start with to work out where to start with deciding which transwomen should be allowed into single sex female spaces alongside undressed women and children is transcrime uk- it gives quite a range of people we would need to consider how to exclude.