im seeing fellow writers saying 'no one deserves abuse- but' or 'rape threats are wrong- however' - its unbelievable to me that women, thinkers, writers, feminists! are coming out with such stuff.
This. I can't believe these phrases are coming out of people's actual mouths. It really terrifies me, actually, because it shows an erosion of very basic standards of what is and isn't acceptable. If you allow that in some cases and situations, abuse, rape and death threats are understandable, it's a short and slippery slope to the things themselves being understandable, and our very simple morality is under threat.
Women shouldn't be abused or receive rape or death threats. That's it. Full statement.
But the people arguing against that are tagging on conditionals. Conditions undermine the first assertion. It becomes: Women shouldn't be abused or threatened unless
They have a view you find abhorrent.
You disagree with their politics
They say something you find bigotry.
These people should ask themselves in what circumstances is it understandable, forgivable, okay really, for women to receive threats and abuse?
These people ought to be not only ashamed, but worried. This is corrosive to our social fabric, and it's fucking dangerous. Consider the state of rape - 'virtually legalised' and the increase in domestic violence. How are women's rights looking these days? All shiny? Lots of fun? We have the right to sell our bodies in Leeds, but not the right to stand up and give a speech. But perhaps you think its understandable that women are arrested if you don't agree with what they say. It's just some t*, right? Understandable that people make baseball bats for these stupid Karens, amirite?
Oh, sorry, I could go on forever. I'm so tired of it. It's so unbelievable that we're at this point in time and so many women still seem somehow unaware of these very real, very tragic and very worrying truths. Or that they are desperately clinging to the 'right side of history'. History doesn't have a bloody right side, you idiots. HIstory is a big fucking messy splat, it's tricky, difficult, debatable, and it's changing all the time. There is no promised land, there are no gendered souls, and women need to wake up and fight for their rights, because there are plenty out there more than happy to take them off us.