The tone of this thread is awful.
Yes the TRA lobby has gone too far and women's rights and freedoms are potentially impacted and it is completely appropriate that we push back and point out these issues. I am overall pleased with the GRA changes and bloody thrilled that self-ID as originally mooted has not gone through, but, I think some posters forget that at the heart of the trans movement, when you strip away the bullying AGPs and the campaigning NUS flashers and the angry young men with baseball bats, there is a core of really confused and desperate (mostly young) people looking for help from society at large.
These kids grow up in such a defined and labelled world, it is surely no surprise that some of them choose to define themselves as neither boy nor girl. Their distress and not fitting into what they perceive as the world's boxes is no less acute than those who can define their distress by a need to be perceived as the opposite sex.
Please don't mock them. NB makes no sense to those of us who 'just are' male or female and have no 'feeling' about it, but to these sufferers it is acute.
We live in an age of such black and white: our daughters are under pressure almost from the moment they emerge into the world to accept being judged on looks, to be pleasing, to be caring. Our sons are judged on how physical and energetic and outgoing they are. It is really no wonder that so many of the most thoughtful, least 'gender normative' kids are struggling to understand their own place right now.
If I could come up with a way to sort the genuinely troubled (dysphoric) from the 'I want it so much' ( euphoric/fetishists) or the 'it will make prison easier/get me into my ex-wife's shelter/ get some of the protections removed from the children or women I want to prey on' (evil bastards), then I would happily move over to help the former group; whether they are struggling with their sex and want to try a full physical transition, or their gender and want a partial one, or even just a social one. If transition will help them then I think that's ok and I doubt those people would be concerned about keeping the protections for women in place.
Stonewall chose to redefine trans to include cross dressers and fetishists. Women are right to fight to protect our safety. Can we please do this without using language which makes us as bad as the bullying TRA ally lobby?