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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Has anyone else followed this case?

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WhoWants2Know · 26/07/2020 13:48

Lee Calder, 31, sentenced for child abuse https://www.cambs.police.uk/news-and-appeals/lee-calder-sentencing

This one has been posted on the local news and police pages, very clearly stating that a woman has been sentenced for sexual abuse of several children, including assault by penetration of a female under 13.

Comments following the posts on Twitter and Facebook indicate that the individual self identifies as female.

There's no indication of where the person will serve the sentence. But from the articles published, it does seem that the crime will be recorded among the female statistics.

I guess I'm just posting because I'm surprised that this particular case hasn't attracted as many questions as I would have expected. Is this just the norm now?

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Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 13:54

I have a friend who actually worked with her

Apparently she’s an awful woman. Really horrible

MrsWooster · 26/07/2020 13:59

It’s a woman, apparently, who is an abuser as well as being abused by the men involved.

Clymene · 26/07/2020 14:05

What is absolutely appalling about that article is that the two male defendants committed absolutely despicable crimes and yet they don't feature in the headline. Why not?

Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 14:09

@Clymene

What is absolutely appalling about that article is that the two male defendants committed absolutely despicable crimes and yet they don't feature in the headline. Why not?
Cos they are men.

It’s almost..”normal” (not the right word but you get my meaning) that a man could do this, but very rare and therefore more shocking when a woman does it

BaronessBollyKnickers · 26/07/2020 14:22

I'm confused. It looks like photos of three men one of whom has dyed red hair.

Is one of them claiming to be a woman?

aliasundercover · 26/07/2020 14:23

the two male defendants committed absolutely despicable crimes and yet they don't feature in the headline. Why not?

This article is about the sentencing of Calder. The two men were sentenced separately on a previous occasion.

Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 14:23

I asked my friend if it was really a woman too!

Cos I couldn’t believe it either

No she’s a woman

EmmaGrundyForPM · 26/07/2020 14:24

Is the offender biologically female?

Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 14:28

Yes

WhoWants2Know · 26/07/2020 14:32

So this really is a woman? That's interesting. I couldn't tell, so I googled and looked at comments to clarify. Not that comments would necessarily be accurate, obviously

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BaronessBollyKnickers · 26/07/2020 14:33

Why are people on this thread talking about "the two male defendants"...?

Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 14:34

Yup really a woman

I couldn’t tell either. My friend did a child care course at college with her.

RoyalCorgi · 26/07/2020 14:49

I saw this case the other day and was really puzzled. The picture looked like a man to me, and as there had been two cases in the past month where men convicted on child sex offences had been referred to as women, I thought maybe it was the same thing going on here. Extraordinary that this was actually a woman.

scotsheather · 26/07/2020 15:20

And it shows pictures of 3 male defendants and not the woman in question. Wonder why.

Soubriquet · 26/07/2020 15:32

It does show the woman....

The red headed person is her

Gurufloof · 26/07/2020 16:14

I saw this on Facebook a day or two ago. I similarly thought the pink haired one was a man Id as female. Couldn't understand the comments, but it makes sense now.

happydappy2 · 27/07/2020 21:59

That’s horrific, how disturbing

justanotherneighinparadise · 27/07/2020 22:14

I thought the woman was actually a natal female from the photo. I think we’re so used to women being used to describe women with penises we. Don’t know what to believe anymore.

Those crimes sound so horrific and the sentences seem extremely lenient 😔

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