Instead, sex is a very selfish, individual, boxed-in thing, where people spend their time establishing hierarchies of kinks, negotiating boundaries (not that you shouldn't have boundaries, but in a normal sexual relationship this is easily established and not fraught nor involving anyone having to train themselves to like something etc), demanding respect for their sexual identity, feeling entitled to sex the way they want it...it seems like a lot of hard work, it never ever seems like anybody actually enjoys it, everyone seems very traumatised afterwards and a lot of bitterness and resentment is brought in along the way. It's like every sexual encounter (of which there do not seem to be many) is the result of protracted power games and talking, and must be accessorised with all manner of clothes and devices.
I suspect that you have been researching some of the networks and activites relevant to my interests.
When unusual, novel enterprises pop up claiming to offer solutions to, for example, the housing crisis, and yet also promote sex toys my anennae go on alert. Not because there is anything wrong with sex toys, obviously, it's the juxtoposition that sets off my alert system.
You may be interested in this, a "co-living" housing organisation with a strange enthusiasm for dildoes. It was the dildoes that were their downfall, at least to some extent. This organisation was on the brink of securing ££££ from some London authorities before the dildoes and some other dubious issues identified by someone, unusually in these times, conducting due dilligence, that generated raised eyebrows to say the least.
(archived link)
archive.is/ea9Ye
Diva Portal PDF promoting the same housing project, The Collective, A Study of New Ways of Alternative Living, has the following text:
"Page 43
43 The Collective, A Study of New Ways of Alternative Living Life style After analysis through many practices from cohousing projects to the squats, the searchfor alternative life qualities has been considered as one of the most key intentions anddriving forces for establishing a community. From organic food consumers, vegetariansand vegan to anarchist or LGBT communities, people with alternative and norm criticalattitudes have found each other and gathered in clusters.
Provocatively, you could callthis alternative life style. Arguably, the form of spatial implication differs due to requirements. The group ofpeople who want to take care of animals and produce their food themselves enjoy beingin a quite neighborhood far from the city and establish a community with architecturetypes that is suitable for their needs and meet fulfill their demands. Alternative life styleincludes living out of the social norms and out of the pre defined daily life outline.People who establish a community with the life style intention mostly seek for morefreedom out of urban life"
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back in the day activists used to go and live in squats or set up our own little networks. Now business entrepreneurs create the housing "solutions" so that "tribes" of activists can live in tiny rooms but have access to shared wifi and communal spaces provided by the company.
To me this appearsto be an astroturfing of activist causes by a corporate entity.
According to this Forbes article
"In a way, The Collective is a micro-ecosystem that provides a unique cocoon to COVID-19. The global nature of the network Merchant and the team has meant that the virtual events program isn’t your usual yoga at 9 am affair. Instead, members have benefitted from experiences like tantric storytelling, sleep-inducing sound healings, live DJ sets, and philosophical discussions with global leaders and authors."
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Readers wishing to educate themselves about how 1984 is manifesting today might do well to spend some time examining this entity and reflecting upon its implications, especially as it is only one corporate entity amongst countless others.