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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Desmond I Amazing in marketing campaign for Claire's

133 replies

SunsetBeetch · 21/05/2020 08:28

Firstly, have to say I have nothing but sympathy for Desmond, who I believe is being exploited by his parents.

But is this appropriate for a company that sells accessories to teenage girls?

"Retailer of toys and accessories aimed at girls, Claire's, has recruited 12 year old drag act Desmond Is Amazing to do its marketing. A former chair of PIE said he was turned on when Desmond danced sexually for adults. Claire's has deleted this tweet but kept its Facebook post up t.co/tbYJxvrefM "

twitter.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1263360087894175751?s=19

Claire's just gives the usual "We are inclusive and kind blah blah blah" response to any criticism

Desmond I Amazing in marketing campaign for Claire's
Desmond I Amazing in marketing campaign for Claire's
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BadLady · 21/05/2020 14:01

To be fair, nobody is criticizing Desmond's actual looks. Given that Desmond is always caked in drag make up, none of us have any idea of what Demond actually looks like.

Generally, regular heavy make up on young children is a massive red flag that something is wrong at home. Sad

Durgasarrow · 21/05/2020 14:28

What the honest fuck

FloralBunting · 21/05/2020 14:34

I'm not criticising his appearance here because I think he should smile more or be curvier or try harder. I'm critical because he looks ill and unhappy, so the target of my criticism is his parents and Claire's whom I have been a regular customer of in the past and will not touch with a ten foot barge pole now. This is disgracefully exploitative and I shall be telling them so.

Datun · 21/05/2020 14:40

Would they use 10-year-old beauty pageant children in their advertising? Because this is exactly the same, only far more overt, so possibly even worse.

DrDavidBanner · 21/05/2020 14:41

I agree UpperLowerCase there's just something really sad about the whole thing and has car crash written all over it.

However, this is not new. There's graveyards and rehab clinics full of people like him who were chewed up and spat out by the media circus.

I used to work for Claire's Accessories, welfare of staff is not a concern for them so it doesn't surprise me that in their attempt to look 'woke' they just come off as exploitative.

FreeKitties · 21/05/2020 14:58

The earlier photo of this child posing in a night club is actually chilling, he looks very sexualised, how have social services not put a stop to it ?

And the fact he he ASD is another troubling layer, my 10 year old has ASD and I wouldn’t dream of letting him anywhere near the media - children with ASD are far more susceptible to mental heath problems, and being manipulated.

This is grooming in plain sight.

SarahTancredi · 21/05/2020 15:17

Yes free

Children with autism are over represented amongst those who are presenting at clinics . Especially amongst the girls as I'm sure I've read that girls present different with autism so are often not diagnosed ir diagnosed later. But its something the tavistock staff that left raised.

I wish we were able to see the whole queer/drag thing for what it is with children but as with anything represented by the letters you cant question as its bigotry Hmm

Although I dont see how insinuating that in order to be able to participate in normal life they have to be allowed to do this stuff no matter how inappropriate, is not also considered bigotry. After all its basically saying that they cant be expected to behave normally ergo we must let all these things go.

Which is not true obviously. There are so many people who are outraged by it..

StillWeRise · 21/05/2020 15:26

is it a Springtime for Hitler type tactic?
someone said they'd gone bust in the US?

Michelleoftheresistance · 21/05/2020 15:43

Everything Free said.

Social services have apparently said they don't need to check on this because magic word involved. What Lang would have called 'sacred caste'.

Basically Rotherham on crack. I'm honestly dismayed at these businesses being so utterly bloody stupid .

Michelleoftheresistance · 21/05/2020 15:46

as with anything represented by the letters you cant question as its bigotry

Part of the increasing push to normalise what you might politely call 'kink' as normal and part of the letters.

Which others those under the letters in a very unhelpful way, plus goes against bloody decades of convincing society that homosexual and bisexual people were just normal people and not sexual deviants, and had the exact same standards of behaviour and trustworthiness as the rest of society. Another example of one of the letters exploiting and using the others without the faintest conscience for their own purposes.

SarahTancredi · 21/05/2020 15:59

Which others those under the letters in a very unhelpful way, plus goes against bloody decades of convincing society that homosexual and bisexual people were just normal people and not sexual deviants, and had the exact same standards of behaviour and trustworthiness as the rest of society. Another example of one of the letters exploiting and using the others without the faintest conscience for their own purposes

Yes I have seen many on twitter not only utterly disgusted but also blocked by people pr called all sorts of names for pointing out that "MAPs" etc were now openly talking on Twitter under the protection of these letters .

The nspcc were also a fine example of what goes on. Publically calling everyone homophobic when the whole JM thing was going on. Not one post I saw gave a shit he was gay. The problem was not his sexuality at all. Most people are quite happy for 2
or more consenting adults to do what they like in the privacy of their own homes. But pointing out that wanking in a work bathroom wearing fetish gear and uploading the video was not acceptable for some body working for a children's charity was apparently homophobic with our favourite vocals mysoginists joining in the pile on.

Datun · 21/05/2020 16:29

Not one post I saw gave a shit he was gay

Many people, including me, didn't even know he was gay. Until they were called homophobic!

sqirrelfriends · 21/05/2020 16:59

I find this really depressing and I can't see life going well for him if he continues on this trajectory.

His childhood should be being protected by his parents, they've failed miserably.

Clymene · 21/05/2020 18:43

Claire's have deleted everything. All mentions from Desmond everywhere. Desmond still has the video on his twitter page: twitter.com/desmond_amazing/status/1251569425570041863?s=21

Poor Desmond. I feel very sorry for him. I don't feel sorry for his exploitative parents.

KaronAVyrus · 21/05/2020 19:34

I feel very sorry for Desmond. No adults around him seem to have his best interests at heart.

Clymene · 21/05/2020 19:55

Ah yes, pup play guy SarahTancredi

Being into fetish = absolutely fine.

Making the link between your kink and your day job at a children's charity = not fine.

I have no idea of the sexual proclivities you f my colleagues, nor do I wish to. But if they clearly linked their LinkedIn profile to their fetish, they'd lose their job.

Did Claire's. It consider reputations risk here?

SarahTancredi · 21/05/2020 20:08

Did Claire's. It consider reputations risk here?

I have to say a year ago companies seemed very happy to tell everyone to piss off and publically insult people and stand by their choices

It does seem that fewer people now are full of praise and many ( well those who havent blocked everyone else anyway) people are now pointing out how disgusting stuff is and now they quietly just pull the ad or whatever.

It's not going down as well as it once did

Clymene · 21/05/2020 20:40

I was typing that message as I was cooking and didn't proof read it. Kudos for you for deciphering it SarahTancredi Blush

SarahTancredi · 21/05/2020 21:01

I have 2 kids I'm.used to it Blush

YourVagesty · 21/05/2020 21:08

His pictures really give me the creeps. I'm so sick of this state sanctioned perversity.

YourVagesty · 21/05/2020 21:25

I've just looked at Desmond's FB page and I'm sickened by the grown men fawning over him. How 'in plain sight' can you get?!!

FFS!

sqirrelfriends · 21/05/2020 21:51

@YourVagesty I'm with you, I'm honestly shocked that this has been allowed to continue. It's like watching a car crash in slow motion, hopefully someone will intervene before something terrible happens.

littlbrowndog · 21/05/2020 22:07

He’s 12 years old. Ffs 12 years old.

What are his parents doing. To,a 12 year old boy.

Poor boy poor boy. So sad for you 😔

marvellousnightforamooncup · 21/05/2020 22:10

That poor child looks like he'll be dead or on meth by the time he's 20. My heart bleeds for him.

littlbrowndog · 21/05/2020 22:15

A wee boy who should be cherished and loved

So sad for that wee boy

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